This is my first bday (last week) and Father’s Day that I haven’t heard from my adult children. It hurts. Their mom has fully turned them against me. I talked to my son last month, then he stopped responding and have been trying to text them both. I heard that she told them that because of the divorce settlement I’m trying to take everything from her. We settled at 50-50 plus I get a maintenance payout. Which I lowered in the final hearing. I really have no idea why they’re mad at me. Or what’s being said. I’ve never talked to them about the divorce or tried to talk about it because I know how that hurts. Just a lonely day in a year of loneliness.