Dating apps and cold approache

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-05-27T03:13:43+00:00

What to do?

Step 1: Go to the gym, work out and lose body fat, become lean, and toned.

Step 2: Learn social skills by reading books about it and putting it into practice in order to know what to say and to learn how to reduce anxiety. Yes social skills are the solution to anxiety. Books like Mystery method, Models, daygame code, magentic messaging, make them horny with humor, or no more mister nice guy.

Step 3: Go to therapy in order to overcome those feelings of not being good enough or not liked by others, and that way you will develop self-confidence.

Step 4: Hire outdoor photogrpahers to take flattering photos of you doing activities or at least looking casual.

Step 5: Find a mission and purpose in life to get over your porn addiction that only exists to distract you with constant flow of dopamine

Step 6: Accept that not every girl you like will like you back, no matter how perfect you are. Let alone if you don't work on all the previous steps first. And know considering how terrible your situation is, this won't be a short term journey; realistically speaking it could take years before you get positive results.

YinMaestro · 2025-05-27T03:05:36+00:00

I think the answer is obvious.

Hit the gym

Quit your porn addiction

Level up your game practicing talking to people in general

Or stay where you are and never taste fine pussy

TonyDCoaching · 2025-05-27T03:05:01+00:00

Hey guys how and what did you do to change your dating life and getting better looking and quality women

This is a good place to start. Read everything in the sidebar, search youtube, pua blogs, online courses, etc. There are countless resources teaching this stuff.

Im 31m so i wanna know what can i do to attract women younger than me(i am short,chubby but not too big, just too much body fat)

Start fasting and hitting the gym. Don't eat until late afternoon. Get lots of protein. Ride a bicycle instead of driving. Get into hiking. Mostly, don't drink too much beer and avoid sugar. Soda and Juice is not necessary.

Social skills is terrible. I am shy, socially anxious and awkward.

Approach thousands of women and this will change. It takes a lot of practice. There is no other way.

I am figgity and nervous with new people and people i felt that don’t like me.

Approach thousands of women and this will change. It takes a lot of practice. There is no other way.

What can i do to get better matches on dating apps like hinge and tinder

Online dating is a waste of your time and energy and will make you feel like a worthless loser. Go outside, meet women.

How can i improve my confidence and social skills.

This is a good place to start. Read everything in the sidebar, search youtube, pua blogs, online courses, etc. There are countless resources teaching this stuff.

I have a bad porn/sex addiction and i became depressed and watch nothing but porn. So i became a born person.

Stop doing that.

I wanna know what i can do, to attract better woman who i am attracted to which are mostly women with high energy, above average looks and just get better with getting the women i want

This is a good place to start. Read everything in the sidebar, search youtube, pua blogs, online courses, etc. There are countless resources teaching this stuff.

I get wonen i dont want on dating apps and women i want just reject me.

This is a good place to start. Read everything in the sidebar, search youtube, pua blogs, online courses, etc. There are countless resources teaching this stuff.

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-27T03:16:05+00:00

Sorry, but this reads so much like a troll with a brand new account spilling out stereotypes.

Let's just assume this is true. You don't really need to give out the details of what you look like. There are probably people with your physical description that gets laid more than "fit" people who don't have a clue how to succeed with women.

videogames_ · 2025-05-27T05:40:59+00:00

Learn social skills first. That's half of the battle. The Charisma Myth is a good book to start. Once you can talk with a woman then you up the flirting.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-27T05:44:15+00:00

Deal with yourself first. Dating will not cure any of your current problems. You have to first address the anxiety, the porn addiction and your mental health in general. Also work on your social skills. But try to make sure you're happy with yourself before dragging your turmoil into the dating realm.

PeterLamb87 · 2025-05-27T08:26:17+00:00

I dont know if this is bait, but in case it isnt, you just posted the list of things you need to fix before you can actually get women. Its like saying I want to be an astronaut but Im dumb, lazy, fat and hate math and physics, one thing does not follow the other.

Fortunately for you, everything but height, can be solved in the span of months to a couple of years.

ComprehensiveTask10 · 2025-06-08T07:24:56+00:00

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Title	Dating apps and cold approache
Author	Historical-Taro-7533
Upvotes	9
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Date	May 27, 2025 2:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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