Well first time posting on here. My story started exactly 2 years ago. My wife had an affair with someone 30 years older than me. So join this group went on her wonderful guys on here. Gave me advice and jokes. Took me forever to figure out the line. What’s his 5 year plan? Not Die was from the movie Big Daddy. Well against all rational advice after the AP dumped her I took her back. Mostly knowing that I gave it my all to try again. No regrets. She made it another 2 years and a move half way across the country. Before she had another affair. This time I’ve lawyered up and going to go through with it. My only regret is I was not the one who discovered this one. My 13 year old son did. So this is mostly a thanks for this group of people offering some good advice and going forward it’s just me and the kids that I have to protect.