4 year old son California HCOL area I won’t be able to afford after. I will need to move at least 30 minutes away. I’m planning to let her keep the house.

I thought I could stick it out longer, but I am just so unhappy. I don’t hate her, but fear I will truly resent her if things don’t change.

We have been in couples counseling for about a year and it hasn’t really helped. Largely comes down to me not feeling desired by her.