Over the past few months, I’ve done my best to reprogram my mind to stop viewing women as things “to be won”. However, I still can’t get over my feelings of inferiority when I see other men so successful with women. I noticed this because I go to the gym frequently and there’s always a select group of guys who are always able to gain the attention of and ask out like all the women in my gym. I don’t resent the women and I don’t even resent the men who might be described as chads (im decent friends with some of the women and the “chads” and they’re lovely people who I respect). But it does get me feeling bad about myself and I am worried that because I’m so physically repulsive any romantic/sexual things with women are off the table for me.