I just got an email from the ex (first official one where I can legally call her my ex!). It says something along the lines of “I’m sure you’ve seen the divorce and custody decree….”.

Um no! I haven’t received anything yet and it’s killing me. She has not allowed me to see my boys for just over three years! I have spent a total of 19 hours in three years with them, all supervised visits because she wouldn’t agree to anything else. She moved 1200 miles away to a place with no friends or family solely to make it more difficult for me.

She blindsided me one day and took my beloved sons and worked the silver bullet hard!

All I can gather from her message is that I was awarded custody! I literally have no other information and in the hour since she sent that email she hasn’t been willing to even forward the decree to me! I’m going nuts knowing that it’s finally over and I’ll finally be able to be a father to my boys again but it’s agony to not have any other information! Holy shitpussy!