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warwww · 2026-01-30T22:11:29+00:00

Huh? I don't even know what I just read.

dday_throwaway3 · 2026-01-30T21:41:19+00:00

You need an attorney. Here's why and how to find one: https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1c2n16i/fundamentals_you_need_a_family_law_attorney/

Until a paternity test is completed that shows otherwise, the state will assume the child is yours. You need to be aware of this and work with your attorney to dispute the paternity. You have a limited time to do this once the child is born. If you don't dispute it, then you will be on the hook for child support.

Historical_Eye3756 · 2026-01-30T16:55:42+00:00

That’s some effed up story. Please leave her ass. She’s a terrible woman and will do something like this again in the future.

Maximum-Molasses-143 · 2026-01-30T15:20:01+00:00

B****** ain’t s****

Dr. Dre

PghSubie · 2026-01-30T15:18:02+00:00

She filed for a divorce. She got back together with an ex-bf. She moved in with him She's pregnant with his baby?

Do you need a billboard? A song and dance number?

She's gone. Move on

Plastic_Efficiency35 · 2026-01-30T15:04:54+00:00

Women- they know what they are doing. Women always have their backup plans.

To your situation- I am truly sorry,bro.

My answer to this is NO.

She betrayed you with her toxicity.

And NO, you should not go back to her

Ok-Cause1108 · 2026-01-30T14:49:51+00:00

Don't be a doormat your entire life.

Divorce this toxic woman and move on with your life.

In the future date 10-15 years younger, never married, and no kids.

If you choose to stay with this woman you are 100% responsible for the miserable life you are going to have.

Tonyalarm · 2026-01-30T11:00:00+00:00

Wanting reconciliation while facing betrayal and a pregnancy creates emotional chaos. You need clarity, boundaries, and time to process reality, not just hope. Consider legal advice, emotional support, and your own dignity first. Love without trust will destroy you.

Otherwise-Shop-9482 · 2026-01-30T10:00:27+00:00

She went no contact and refused to talk to me to give me closer and then gave me shit for reaching out and hooking up with my exs that i left on good terms woth for comfort saying i moved on so soon wen she hooked up with him while i stayed at my parents house givng her time to move out of my house with her 3 boys my 3 step kids i took on to begin with

Ok_Tea30 · 2026-01-30T09:49:09+00:00

I’m really sorry. That’s a brutal amount to take in at once, and it makes total sense that you feel shattered and stuck.

I’m going to be straight but gentle with you. This isn’t something you can fix or carry for her. A pregnancy with someone else changes the reality in a permanent way, no matter how much love or history you share. Wanting her back doesn’t make you weak, but staying in this would keep you in constant pain.

Right now the priority is you. Your safety, your sanity, your future. Step back. Slow everything down. Do not make big promises or decisions from shock or guilt. Get support around you, therapist, trusted person, anyone. You don’t have to decide your whole life today, but you do need distance from the chaos.

You didn’t cause this outcome alone. And you don’t have to destroy yourself trying to hold something together that’s already broken.

serkovavantgarden · 2026-01-30T09:48:30+00:00

Jesus Christ

So bad boy sperminator pumped and dumped your missus and left her with a bun in the oven

And now she wants you to bring the kid up

Seems like you have a really difficult decision to make here

Go with your heart bro!

Seriously though

GTFO

Title	Help
Author	Otherwise-Shop-9482
Upvotes	3
Comments	26
Date	January 30, 2026 9:44 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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