Hello, I am a 27 year old guy and since I would really like to be in a relationship, I sort of need to meet girls who are single. But I have realized that over the last year I have only met 2 or 3 girls around my age who are single. Where are they hiding? What do I need to do to find them?

I think I live a pretty socially active life and put myself into situations where I can meet people but thats obviously not the case.

  • Church young adult groups - A lot of married couples and guys, the few single girls there are like 18-20.
  • Rock climbing gym - A lot of kids and parents much older than me
  • Dance classes - Mostly men or retired couples
  • Local run club - Couples and guys
  • Bars for live music (I dont really drink) - Mostly older people
  • Dating apps - Not many girls who are actually active (I can give it a 6 month break and still see the same girls with the same pics). Also never get matches.

It seems that no matter what I try, I just meet couples, guys, or girls that are too young for me. And when I do meet someone who I would consider compatible, she only sees me as a friend. I have chatted with my friends about this and they just say that I missed my chance, and that they dont know of anyone single either.

What else can I do to try to meet girls who are still single?