What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?

Sketchy-Turtle · 2026-03-11T05:29:38+00:00

This is such a weird non-issue to me.

I had a date Friday where we met half way. She drove 30 minutes and I drove an hour. We had our date and parted ways with a kiss.

Our next date is at my place where I'm going to cook for her and she already mentioned staying over for the night. Why do you NEED to fuck on the first date? If anything not fucking will make her like you more. Just make sure you escalate properly during the date.

Charge36 · 2026-03-11T01:49:00+00:00

You can propose a place that's close to hers also.

I would probably still go on a "halfway date" but the logistics are not good

RazzleDazzle1537 · 2026-03-11T02:04:55+00:00

She won’t put up obstacles (I.e., meeting half away) if she’s that interested in you. She’ll still expect you to take initiative, but she won’t make it difficult.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-03-11T14:13:33+00:00

Do you want to get the date? Play ball and be flexible & open to her input.

Do you have 2 women to choose from that you could go out with? Then choose the one that is more agreeable to your proposals if you want sex.

jackzander · 2026-03-12T04:27:42+00:00

You have not yet passed the Stranger Danger Test.

Fighting the Stranger Danger Test will cause you to fail the Stranger Danger Test.

Just behave like a normal person and accommodate this normal request.

nezahualcoyotl90 · 2026-03-10T21:10:14+00:00

You seem desperate if you try to hit it on the first date. Not saying you can’t but first date hookups are tough.

Ok-Orange7146 · 2026-03-10T22:22:37+00:00

Let me put it this way. If a woman has high sexual interest in you, she is going to meet at wherever you suggest, because she doesn’t want to risk saying no and losing you. She WANTS to see you no matter what.

So , if she is resistant, she is essentially telling you “i dont really care if this date goes through or not, you are not someone I have high interest in”. And so if you agree to meet where she wants, do you think the possibility of her having sex with you is high, considering she doesn’t mind losing you?

Filter out girls who really want to see you from the ones who could care less.

That’s how you have more sex without wasting your time.

FlowingMagic · 2026-03-11T08:26:26+00:00

meeting halfway? this red flag

like wth, youre not exchanging your son to a drug cartel for 2 millions so it has to be done with day'ight and witnesses...

so what to say, you say yeah right... and then you never talk to her again

no sex = red flag resistance = red flag not going to your home for a mysterious or invalid reason = red flag

flag flag flag, flag them disinterested girls, so that you are too, at last, free

you gobbled up so many lies to be here saying this

Title	What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?
Author	Shoddy_Phone2996
Upvotes	0
Comments	39
Date	March 10, 2026 8:48 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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