How to avoid being the "Sexless Innkeeper"

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2026-03-27T17:16:27+00:00

Dude you literally almost have her naked in your bed.

It's very easy: don't fuck it up. How? Be chill and non-needy, you don't have anything to prove or to attract her. Escalate physically and she will do the rest.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-03-27T17:02:15+00:00

She already greenlit all the action. Just take it slow, don't act needy or that you want sex, but escalate, tease her, touch her. If she's alone with you, turn on music and invite her to dance. Hug her, kiss her in her neck, see how she reacts, and then keep on escalation. Keep it light and fun and sexual.

Technical_Yak_7066 · 2026-03-27T17:02:12+00:00

Make your intentions known. Don’t be obvious. If you like her, just like her. Tease her, fuck around, enjoy the moment. Release your expectations and be true to yourself and you’ll end up satisfied no matter what happens.

That mindset is attractive enough.

Pjayyyy368 · 2026-03-27T17:40:29+00:00

It’s simple - don’t be a p*ssy and make a move! Depending on how late she comes over, I would order some food and have a lil movie night (you could even text her the day before and suggest the movie night). While the movie is on that’s a good opportunity to put your arm around her and cuddle. Eventually that can lead to making out which can lead to sex.

In this context, if the girl wants to share a bed with you then she most likely wants to sleep with you. Worse case if she doesn’t want to have sex, then she will turn you down. But she 100% knows that most guys will make a move in this scenario, so theres nothing weird about going for it!

zebekias · 2026-03-27T19:02:05+00:00

If you think she is hot and you massively desire her, it's easy: just take her out and let it be known that you find her incredibly sexy etc, in flirty ways. I assume you have enough game to be flirty and overtly sexual.

If she is not hot or you don't totally desire her, I have no clue. "Acting" just to get laid never really worked for me. In general I found anything less than attractive girls to be too difficult to game (a pain in the ass really).

pie-mart · 2026-03-27T17:08:23+00:00

This can go two ways. She either sees you as a mutual friend or likes you.

If she thinks you expect sex in exchange for her to be allowed to stay there she may see you as a creep.

So, I would ask if being the plus 1 is as friends or if its like a date

Because if she sees you as friends, she will take you wanting to share 1 bed as you trying to get sex out of giving a place to stay versus just giving your friend a place to bunk while she is in town

And she may tell yalls mutuals. So, I would just make sure that she actually likes you or if she sees you as just a friend

aiwendil_brown · 2026-03-27T17:01:17+00:00

Tell her you only have one bed, and the only way you can have her if it you two share it.

White_Devil1995 · 2026-03-28T10:14:34+00:00

If she is the one that wants you as a plus 1 then there is little to no chance that y’all won’t fuck.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2026-04-02T19:13:42+00:00

Do you need an engraved invitation?

She's already expressed interest in you and she's asking to crash at your place. The only way she could be putting out more obvious signals is if she showed up naked with "fuck me" written across her body in magic marker.

Title	How to avoid being the "Sexless Innkeeper"
Author	nudes_hunter
Upvotes	150
Comments	20
Date	March 27, 2026 4:59 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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