Not really sure what I’m looking for, maybe just want to vent. I know I’ve been posting a lot but I gotta let it out.

In a previous post I said my wife said we are getting divorced in a group chat with her parents. After her actions the last week I am going to give it to her.

Somehow in her head she decided I had agreed to a trial separation and was trying to control how she wanted that to happen. I held my boundary and said she is getting what she told me and her parents what she wants.

She backtracked and said she only said divorce out of extreme anger(her words) and divorce is the last thing she wants. No apology or accountability for her actions. Then asked for a 30 day trial separation.

I told her I need time to think and her actions have me reconsidering everything. I have every Intention to go through with the divorce. What she did completely broke any desire I had to make it work.

I have contacted a lawyer and I’m getting my affairs in order as I save up for my retainer. I’m completely done with her games and I think she’s realizing it. Tonight she was sending me noods like I’m going to just run back to her.