This doesn't apply to all single men, but it's certainly true for me.

And I'd probably prefer to replace "high expectations" with "selectivity and personal taste."

1) This post is less about casual sex. Personally, I want sex with every second woman I see. But I've only wanted relationships with three women in my entire 38 years of life.

But women always write that relationships are more important than casual sex. And apparently, for them, their entire sexual experience often comes from building relationships with men. Granted, they've had a few such relationships over the course of their 38 years. Which seems perfectly normal. But if I try this approach for myself, I see that, overall, I've met women I liked both physically and as individuals, and I'd like to be with them... Only three times in my life. And all three times, there was no mutual interest on their part.
Considering the typical dating math: "Approach a hundred women and one of them will reciprocate," three women is obviously not enough. The chances that they wouldn't like me were truly enormous. It doesn't surprise me that these girls found more handsome, rich, and attractive men than me. After all, in my opinion, they were beautiful. For example, we had common interests and tastes. And that's rare.

2) It's like those women who, being from the lower class, dream of a prince or a tycoon. We scold them for their unreasonable demands. But what if no one of equal stature—someone considered "in your league"—is attractive to you?

3) I have a terrible confession. I'm a man, I have avoidant personality disorder, and I got a like on Tinder! Yeah, I'm not so ugly that I'd be blocked right away.

Actually, I get likes regularly. But I don't really like these women physically, and after talking, it turns out we have no common interests or views. We're complete alients.

Given my personality disorder, I know for sure that I'm not a macho. I'm not opposed to getting these women into bed, but I have the charisma of a slug, and it's impossible.

That's why I'm looking for a solution in a serious relationship. To solve the issue of loneliness, intimacy, and sex all at once. In one package. Through long-term relationship building.

But it seems I simply can't find someone I like enough to want to spend time with.