Most Men & Women are more attractive than they think and most dating issues come from lacking true self confidence.

Most Men & Women are more attractive than they think and most dating issues come from lacking true self confidence. Your average man is 5'9" and 200 pounds. Your average woman is 5'4" and 170 pounds. Most women prefer a guy that is a little skinny or a little chubby as long as they have some muscle, over someone totally jacked. Lots of guys prefer a variety of body shapes in women Everything from chubby to pencil thin is someone's type. 87% of women say they would date a man who was bald. Studies have found men on average prefer an average face with equal amounts siding more towards angular and soft features. This means that even if you're a 5"5' 200 pound bald man you are still probably attractive to a lot of women.

The issue is that self confidence is too low. We see a lot of very conventionally attractive people on TV and so we think conventionally attractive is the only kind of attractive. I think if most women had to rate most men their own age they would rate them a 6 and the same for most men rating most women.