how often should you have sex?

Red_Beard6969 · 2026-05-27T08:34:54+00:00

Where in the world do you get time for two times a day? What is she, an unemployed teenager?

Infosignalsol · 2026-05-27T08:33:02+00:00

Nobody is weird, you can have sex as much as you (don't) want.

lameboigenie · 2026-05-27T10:13:32+00:00

There is no wrong number but there shouldn't be a huge gap with your partner

Dasrule · 2026-05-27T13:09:19+00:00

Twice a day if you’re in a relationship that allows for it.

AlastairXXL · 2026-05-27T19:43:32+00:00

Introduce me to her please

V3X390 · 2026-05-27T12:37:33+00:00

Libido changes a lot depending on the person and the time in their life. Some people are fine with once a week. Some need it twice a day.

OpinionThink481 · 2026-05-27T15:21:29+00:00

When you grow up one day, you will eventually realize that being weird or being normal is irrelevant, what matters is that you do what you want to do and to stop needing society to approve of your choice.

So to answer your question, you have sec as much as you want to, and you stop needing people to give you a thumbs up for it.

SithLordJediMaster · 2026-05-27T14:42:57+00:00

25 hours a day

8 days a week

Lecture_Good · 2026-05-27T17:56:37+00:00

I think it's all relative. It also depends on the quality of sex. My girlfriend and I can go at it for 2-3hours on/off and multiple positions. We go from conversation to foreplay to kissing to caressing and snuggling to multiple positions and showering together. It's a whole event. So we can do this 3 days in a row. Or we can see each other once a week. Or just when want to. There's no right answer. We both are healthy and active busy professionals. We also cook together and have a drink on the patio.

thinkandlive · 2026-05-27T08:57:43+00:00

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-05-27T11:47:17+00:00

As a man it's usually detrimental to your life to have sex more than once per day. Twice is possible if you exchange energies well during sex and have the stamina and sleep hours for it. A woman can have sex way more than a man can. Women can have multiple orgasms in the same session as well. So nothing weird about your cases. You might just have low testosterone production. Needs are very much individual.

Nudle12 · 2026-05-27T08:33:18+00:00

Depends on every person and how horny they are. But yes, if you want to do sex with her just start doing romantic things to make her wanting it. You know what i mean by this brother.

Ok_Organization5596 · 2026-05-27T16:38:35+00:00

meanderingwolf · 2026-05-27T17:01:45+00:00

It varies by individual and over time.

Clp48Tz · 2026-05-27T17:38:17+00:00

There's no exact formula, depends on everyone and every situations but I guess 1 per day maybe.

adavila1870 · 2026-05-27T18:39:56+00:00

Sex twice a day I can only do it the first week we hook up. After that, maybe once a day, after years of relationship maybe 4 times a week

kingtechllc · 2026-05-27T18:57:30+00:00

What kind of question is this? Are you not old enough to know that it varies depending on the person, situation (if my parents died I probably won’t have sex that day?), and other factors. That’s like saying when should I drink water? Idiot when you’re thirsty

MGS4474 · 2026-05-27T22:34:07+00:00

It soo different for everyone I used to do it few times a day now its down to once a week if that my partner does not like having sex as much as she use too.

vDarph · 2026-05-27T22:34:14+00:00

Once a day, once a week, once a month, once a year. Nothing's wrong. It's not a fundamental need in your daily life, you won't die if you don't fuck. Everything else is just social pressure. Do what makes you feel alive and stop bothering.

ChicoBrillo · 2026-05-27T22:36:48+00:00

It's more important that how much you want sex goes along with your partner. Mismatched labidos tend to cause problems

chunkyofhunky · 2026-05-27T12:02:36+00:00

My libido is 5x a day, but realistically I can hope for once day if im in a relationship

KevinLuWX · 2026-05-27T13:32:54+00:00

If I live with my partner every day it's around 2 times a day. But since we meet once per week, it's 2-3 times per week.

HighDefinition777 · 2026-05-27T13:41:41+00:00

Endless times Friday-Sunday. Been working like that for 6months straight no issues.

WebNew9978 · 2026-05-27T16:11:54+00:00

I guess it depends on each person. But there are some who go through life never having sex either.

vertascend · 2026-05-27T18:46:07+00:00

If you eat the same meal every single day… eventually you’ll get bored

Title	how often should you have sex?
Author	SilkyNightingales
Upvotes	0
Comments	34
Date	May 27, 2026 8:28 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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