Gym baddies…how to

Lacunaethra · 2026-06-10T15:04:19+00:00

Socialize with men in the gym, too.

Then, when talking to girls, you come across as an extrovert who likes to make new friends, not as a creep hoping to finally bang a gym chick.

BrutalLeeMean · 2026-06-10T14:41:11+00:00

start small & gradually..

Funky_hobbo · 2026-06-10T16:39:04+00:00

The only time I dated a girl from the gym was through warm approach.

I could tell that she checked me a couple of times, at some point we started talking naturally, you know how it goes, she's working out right next to me, one comment here and there, we end up talking more and more and at some point it came out naturally: "what if we meet tomorrow?"

I don't even remember how it was.

The date went badly btw, never dated again but we were fine with it.

That being said, I do not reccomended it unless, for real, you feel a really good connection and you both are extra sure.

Dickasaurus_Rex_ · 2026-06-10T14:28:18+00:00

say hi first and just small talk. if that goes well then escalate to more personal talk. if that goes well then ask her on a date. if that goes well then bump bellies.

dont expect each step to happen quickly and let it flow

Pedro_Moona · 2026-06-10T22:31:14+00:00

The trick is to make a little small talk when she's away. From working out. Maybe at the drinking counting or something like that. It's gotta look 100% natural. Then if that's small that goes well. You're hoping to run into her again and have a deeper conversation that goes well. You can ask her Out. I heard they ever do this because the natural times never come as far as interrupting a workout, that has never worked for me.

Worried-Ad-5443 · 2026-06-11T01:29:56+00:00

Don’t

V3X390 · 2026-06-11T15:45:24+00:00

Yea don’t approach women during their workouts. Wait for her to be on her way out

mrxsol0dolo · 2026-07-03T15:26:45+00:00

Honestly, not rocket science.

If she is checking you out, you can literally say "Hi." Go over and introduce yourself, etc.

I have asked for a spot, asked to work in on a machine, and straight up walked up and introduced myself at the gym before. Asking for a spot landed me a date after we had some conversation.

Personally, I found it a lot easier to "approach" women at the gym when I was at a smaller gym without much of an audience. But I'm only striking up a conversation with women who notice me and don't hide that they're noticing me.

I am not walking up to women who avoid eye contact. Just say hi. See where things go. No expectations.

ApocalypticBroccoli · 2026-06-10T15:38:24+00:00

Don’t approach at the gym.

American gyms are like German saunas.

Title	Gym baddies…how to
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Date	June 10, 2026 2:20 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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