LTR says: "You are loosing me", what to reply to this?

nastynickdr · 2016-01-27T22:54:08+00:00

"You know what, you just lost me"

This means she is unhaaaaapyyyyy and you are not giving her the tingles anymore. Good chance she is getting side dicked as well.

Whisper · 2016-01-28T03:27:49+00:00

"Door's right there."

2016-01-28T00:13:42+00:00

It means you're being a little bitch by engaging her in an argument and being so beta that you think logic can change a woman's opinion.

Man up and put this chick in her fucking place hard. She's begging you to dominate her.

2016-01-28T02:14:46+00:00

"losing*, we're done"

MattyAnon · 2016-01-28T05:33:48+00:00

"You don't sound too committed to me. And that's fine, I don't want to hold you down to something you don't want. We should see other people."

Don't try to Make It Work, she'll feel that you're doubling down into beta mode and drop you like a flash.

Reduce your commitment, see other women. Don't take this crap laying down. Don't be even more beta. Do Not Try To Make It Work.

MrFuckupKing · 2016-01-28T00:17:37+00:00

Do you care if you are loosing her? How a man tries to keep a woman is often how he looses her yet you will loose her if you are indifferent about keeping her if she has other options and is confident enough in herself to pursue them.

"You don't know me" is often when guys think they do know her and tell her what they know when they are actually wrong about what is going on inside her head.

It is risky to assume you know what a woman is feeling. The world they live in is often so contradictory and paradoxical that no rational man can easily understand it.

They often remember details men ignore or have long forgotten and they give meaning to those details that would baffle a nuclear physicist.

IMO she is not getting something she needs. I would hazard a guess she is feeling ignored and that you are not communicating in ways that leave her feeling valued.

Going hard red pill can blow up a relationship if you misuse its power.

youcantdenythat · 2016-01-28T00:44:06+00:00

I hate to see ya go but I love to watch ya leave.

She needs more dread. Time to plate or next this one for awhile. She doesn't deserve you. Remember, you are the prize.

100149314 · 2016-01-28T08:21:57+00:00

She's trying to threaten you, trying to change you. Never change for somebody else other than yourself. Move on, get new pussy.

FrameWalker · 2016-01-28T00:07:00+00:00

Take sex away. Right now is this person ain't more than they take away? Act accordingly

myfingersarecold · 2016-01-28T04:33:22+00:00

Perhaps a bit more nuanced than our other compatriots here are expressing: odds are if she's saying that, you've already lost her.

Dread her if you want to keep her around, next her if you find yourself putting more in that you're getting out.

No amount of logic-ing can turn around a woman who is hell bent on getting out.

This could be due to you and your frame, this could be due to her. Value is subjective, and sometimes even men with high value are cuck'd by women as a major shit test.

We call these women whores. And we don't have time for whores.

High conflict partners are just built that way. Think a woman on her period, while also on coke. My ex-wife is borderline. I'm well versed in this particular phrase she's throwing your way. She said it. I left.

americnleprchaun · 2016-01-28T04:35:38+00:00

leave

lost_lurker · 2016-01-28T05:56:16+00:00

If a girl says this to you it's time to move on. It would be really hard/impossible to come back from this. There are billions of women out there. Only a scarcity mentality and male hamstering would keep you with someone that isn't that into you.

2016-01-28T07:27:55+00:00

Translation: "I think I've found someone who can tingle me better than you."

I personally wouldn't argue with statements said like that. Dread game could work here or just agree and leave her.

TomFoo · 2016-01-28T10:02:05+00:00

Power is having the option of walking away. Right now someone else / something else has power over you.

GayLubeOil · 2016-01-28T15:01:35+00:00

You're just repeating some dumb shit you heard on television. Two can play that game. I am vengeance. I am the night. I am Batman.

hibloodstevia · 2016-01-28T00:25:55+00:00

Well, either she is being fucked harder and longer than you are capable of, or she's about to be.

TitsAndWhiskey · 2016-01-28T05:39:52+00:00

2016-01-28T08:45:42+00:00

"I never really had you. It was just my turn."

animalpoo · 2016-01-27T23:57:03+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way

Title	LTR says: "You are loosing me", what to reply to this?
Author	the_seducer
Upvotes	14
Comments	28
Date	January 27, 2016 10:47 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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