I got left by ex for another dude

ImplodedVeggies · 2020-09-02T23:54:46+00:00

I used to imagine girls as investors, and myself as the stock.

She’s a dumb investor who missed her opportunity to buy low, she’s the one who will look back and have regrets, not you. Just like any rising stock, the herd will follow. Pick your chin up and keep doing things that will increase your stocks value and you won’t even remember this girls name after time passes.

Good luck

ImprovingTalent · 2020-09-02T23:07:55+00:00

I mean you can’t control that. You can only control things about yourself and that’s basically TRP. It’s a sidebar question. Try to be the best version of yourself, lift, work hard, be smart, be manly and girls will be more attracted to you-> less chance of her catching tingles for another guy.

But you should also realize that it literally doesn’t matter if she cheats, her loss. You’re the prize. If that isn’t your mentality you know what to work on from now on.

saltyfiredude · 2020-09-02T23:51:26+00:00

What the other guy said, become the best version of yourself and know it was her loss.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-09-03T00:10:49+00:00

Too mate guard or not mate guard, that's the question.

I'm in the camp of no mate guarding, but I always have some plates ready. A man with options is a dangerous man. I think they can smell it on us, lol...

Chin up on losing a LTR, you don't lose the lady, just your spot in line :)

chazthundergut · 2020-09-03T00:38:50+00:00

"She said she lost feelings, and thats bullshit."

Wrong. She DID lose feelings for you. If you were still giving her tingles then she wouldnt be dumping you.

Focus on what you can control, and put your energy into self-improvement.

rhofire · 2020-09-03T01:33:42+00:00

What should you do if another guy catches her attension?

Give yourself some time. Allow yourself to hurt. It hurts.

Then, ask yourself why it matters to you so much. Surely, things must have been going wrong somewhere before all this happened. You're not ready for that yet, though. Just let it hurt. Once you've dealt with the pain, you'll find a way to figure it all out.

catz123456 · 2020-09-03T03:29:06+00:00

That's why everyone here harps about abundance mindset. She left you and expected you to feel down/depressed (which you prob did) and ask her why (which you prob did). They love that. It validates them. The correct response should be emotionless, like you don't care, like it had no effect. Leave her puzzled and wondering.

319Skew · 2020-09-03T03:51:19+00:00

You walk. Not sure how much more detail you want. Turns over. Move on. Don't look back.

Zabi4 · 2020-09-03T12:50:00+00:00

You cant do anything about it other than being a true alpha that she cant find/see any other guy better than you.

Increase your SMV. When you have high enough SMV , you wont get dumped or you wont care even if you do get dumped by any chances.

BusterVadge · 2020-09-04T00:16:49+00:00

She's not yours. It's just your turn. This applies to all women, pretty much my man. If she's interested in other guys, your turn is already over.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-09-05T11:32:36+00:00

You shouldn't do anything. She's her own person and she will make her own decisions. All you should be worried about is being your best self and staying on top of your game. If she's entertaining outside bullshit, let her. Dump her, cut her off for life, and move on. You can only control yourself. So just worry about how much bullshit you as a man should have to deal with from sonething there is Ann abundance of on this planet

Title	I got left by ex for another dude
Author	dropshipper0098
Upvotes	5
Comments	30
Date	September 2, 2020 10:58 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ilhmdi/i_got_left_by_ex_for_another_dude/
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