I want to party hard, go out to bars/clubs, and get hammered in my 30s. Where do I find a crowd of people to enjoy that with at that age?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-10-27T04:29:33+00:00

You should arrange a meetup in Vegas, or some other mutually amenable location, with /u/StumpinToVictory, /u/The_Whos_Seeker and /u/ShallITinder so you can start running as a crew, as you seem to all be after the same things.

zopiro · 2016-10-27T09:22:17+00:00

Don't do it man. Seriously. Getting married and having a child can bring you a lot of happiness, you just have no idea. You actually get tired of alcohol and clubbing.

If you decide to do it anyway, try to keep it simple and for a short period of time. I was doing that in my early 30's, and it was a complete waste. I would just go to bars and start conversations with people, no matter their age. I'd make bar friends, drink a lot and meet women.

We're deep into a sick culture that glorifies empty materialist crap.

quicklogaccount · 2016-10-27T10:21:29+00:00

I've decided I want to party hard, hit the bars and nightclubs

There you are. You'll find your crowd at bars and nightclubs.
Pester a few of your friends that aren't in the same stage as you into doing it a few times and go.
Most likely you'll see some people you already know. Gym guys mostly. If you don't, do what you should be doing there anyways, which is opening groups and getting to know people. Some people will stick for various reasons. Either way, in a couple months you'll get to "release" your friends for their duty.

Edit:
Man, stop asking "Should I". You got every possible answer for that question. There's nothing else for you to learn, you were walked over the causes that drive you, the possible consequences, and lectured on why you should and should not.
You want to do it. Great. Get what you learned on the "should" questions and use it, so you don't screw yourself. Or screw yourself, who cares.
"How" isn't a really good question. "How do I get friends interested in the same stuff I am", really? You know it's lame. Also, you're not seeking the answer for that. You still put fucking "30s" on the question, you still seek encouragement and approval to do it. Here's the thing: You don't need it.
It's legal, it won't harm women, it won't harm men, if it harms anyone, it'll harm you. It's cool. It doesn't even hurt morals and ethic.

You're 30, you should pursue every fucking experience you want, and if there is some degree of maturity you should have reached by now, it's overcoming the need to know whether what you want it's "valuable" or not for someone or a group. You know the price you'll pay, you know what you're expecting to get, you think it's worth it, so, stop being conflicted about it. Watch Shia LaBeouf's video and do it. You're as prepared for it as you'll ever be.

redditatt · 2016-10-27T06:21:09+00:00

If you're 30, and asking this question on the internet...

/cringe

TheFirsh · 2016-10-27T06:09:25+00:00

Try Europe

Willkuer_ · 2016-10-27T11:36:38+00:00

Sports.

Join some sports activity club (maybe best would be team sport). Maybe gym.

What about work? Coworkers (not bosses, no female coworker) can be a very good choice.

Marino4K · 2016-10-27T12:10:03+00:00

I don't see many in clubs over 30, pubs are a different story.

Kalepsis · 2016-10-27T16:18:12+00:00

In a military town.

machimus · 2016-10-27T04:28:01+00:00

Here goes another one.

AlfredApple · 2016-10-27T04:19:27+00:00

The only 30+ guys in nightclubs are the owners or seedy guys leering from the side waiting until the lights come up to pounce.

Most of us are either at the pub having a few beers and talking shit or at someone's house standing around a BBQ debating how many times you should turn the steak.

Title	I want to party hard, go out to bars/clubs, and get hammered in my 30s. Where do I find a crowd of people to enjoy that with at that age?
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Date	October 27, 2016 4:14 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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