I've seen a lot of posts on here lately from newbs.

This is great! We always need new people in here, to keep the more experienced of us on our toes. But my God, do you guys come out with some bullshit sometimes! Examples:

"I was a beta husband for ten years, I discovered MRP three weeks ago and the marriage has been perfect ever since! Thanks!"

Well done. Seriously, it's really good that you're seeing results. But don't get too excited. RP is a philosophy, a journey. Not a destination or a quick fix. And while you might see a glimmer of results fast, you can't turn around ten years of neglect overnight. You have to put in a lot of hard work.

"I've been a beta husband for ten years. How do I fix this? I don't want to do anything difficult or challenging; the problem lies entirely with my wife".

No it doesn't. The problem lies with you. Your wife is just a reflection of those problems. Take a good, hard look at yourself - or failing that, ask us to do it for you - and you'll almost certainly find that your wife is a shrewish, nagging bitch because you yourself are a little bitch.

Does this sound harsh? Tough. You want to be patted on the back and told it's all someone else's fault, head on over to some other sub. This ain't the place for you.