I've being lurking TRP for a while now, but trying not to post much until I completely get through the side bar and get in shape - until then I know the answer to most of my questions (lift more!). It's slow going, but sex has increased from once a week to about three times a week as I've gradually learnt to keep frame and became less of a whiny passive aggressive 'nice guy'. Her demeanor is generally much more pleasant as I've learnt to handle her shit tests and not enter her frame so much - I'm enjoying her company again, as opposed to dreading the work day ending and coming home to her nagging. In saying that I've still got a long way to go; she is still physically hotter than me, and my beta providing qualities still outweigh the alpha. Sex has been more aggressive and I've introduced some light spanking and dirty talk, and being more clear with I want which is a huge improvement over where sex was 6 months ago.

Last night we get a last minute babysitter and go out for dinner. Near the end of dinner she mentions we should see a movie. Sounds good I tell her. She giggles and says "You're not going to like what I want to see.... but pleasseee I really want to see it.". Turn out it's the new Channing Tatum movie which involves lots of male stripping... after some convincing I reluctantly (in a pretty beta manner if I'm honest) agree, although it's partly out of curiosity from watching it with a more red pill lens. Her eyes light up like a little girl who just got told we are going to go to disneyland. She seems overly happy about it, and makes a couple of inapproripate comments, including one that he's the "hottest guy in the world" which I act a little butt hurt about, she responds in a sarcastic way "oh except for you babe...". Of course he's hotter than I ever will be, but it's still disrespectful to be drooling over him in front of me. She also makes a couple of comments about how it's revenge for how I acted at a strip club a couple of years ago (it was her idea to go! Yet 2 years later she is still mad at me about the experience).

I try and maintain some frame and not seem too insecure, by saying stuff like "You shouldn't let me see this, I might turn gay and leave you, he's quite a hottie!". We watch the movie, it's fucking awful, no story line at all; it's porn for women with a mildly (and only mildly) better script than the average porno. The guys are ridiculously good looking and in great shape - a year ago I would of watched it and thought 'what meatheads', now I'm watching it with admiration, jealously and a little self-hatred (for being a lazy fuck and wishing I looked more like them).

Side note - It was a packed movie theater with 80% women - they would literally make 'ohhhhhhhh', 'ommmggg', 'prrrr' drooling noises at certain points in the movie, AWALT. It was nothing like you would ever see in a movie with hot women and an audience of guys, it was way way over the top... I'm pretty sure 99% of the women in the audience would fuck one of these Chads over their beta husband in a second given the chance.

After the movie I tell her it was boring as hell and that there was no plot. She says "Oh at least I know you mustn't be gay, that was the best movie ever"... and continues to go on, and on, and on, and on, about how hot Tanning was, and blah blah blah. At this stage I'm starting to get pissed off, but contain myself and manage to hardly say a word on the way home. In the years I've known her I've never felt anything near that level of attraction exuding from her towards me, so it was hard not to feel butt hurt.

As we are driving home she even mentions that that there is a male strip club near by that we should go to, or that we should go out dancing (I hate dancing and have always being terrible at it, and she knows I wont agree). I let her know that there is not a chance. It's worth noting that I'm tracking her cycle and she is close to ovulating so the fact she wants to go out to clubs 'dancing', even if it's with me, is making me feel less than impressed.

As we get home, she says 'You should have your way with me, then let's watch another movie on dvd'. Usually I've got a really high sex drive, but due to the lack of respect all night and the fact she is going to be thinking of the Chads from the movie while I fuck her I'm really not feeling it... But I don't want her to be horny, ovulating, and have her husband not willing to fuck her; that's a recipe for disaster. So I direct her to the bedroom, go down on her to get her wetter, then get on top of her and fuck her hard, coming quickly without worrying about getting her off first. Often when I come quickly I'll offer to fuck her again, but I'm not feeling it, so I just roll off and go and put a movie on. We watch the movie and all is fine.

Tonight we were at a family dinner and her little sister (a fully fledged and proudly cock carousel riding whore - one of the worst example I've ever seen, complete with a orbiter with such bad oneitis it wouldn't surprise me if he tops himself any day now) asks my wife what we did last night. My wife whispers to her then they both giggle. A few minutes later she says to my wife 'are you serious', my wife says 'yea 100% serious', I ask what she is talking about. "About seeing the movie again with me" says her sister. I was pretty much over everything... but this is starting to push it. "Of course I'm not joking, it's soooooo good" says my wife. WTF, it's clearly not good, unless you a horny women getting your tingles. I don't say anything and force myself to act non but hurt the rest of the night.

If my wife decides to actually watch it again and continue with going on and on, and fucking on, about 'omg he's so hot', I can think of a few options: 1) "Go watch it again! have fun with your sister!". 2) "Yeah, that's cool, go watch it, we can get a baby sitter and I'll go hit up the strip clubs with my mates!" which she will HATE the idea of and point out that "it's soooo different". 3) "Stop being so disrespectful, you can go watch it, but expect the D papers on the table to sign when you get home!". Which seems like a huge overreaction but it's about what I'm feeling right now.

This behavior is from a wife who usually insists we don't have friends of the opposite sex on social media, who doesn't go out partying/clubbing, only wants go out in social settings with me, etc. So it's a bit out of character and I'm not sure if I just treat it as a shit test or if it's a sign she is getting 'bored' and it's something I should be worried about. She did ride the CC pretty hard before I meet her, so any mention of her being 'bored' with her life (she is a SAHM) - which happens reasonably often - sets off some alarm bells.