She is a bit insecure and pregnant. After 3 hour mowing, trimming and sidewalk edging session I was taking a shower. She grabbed my phone opened reddit sync and went on an hour reading spree. I ended the shower and she kept on reading. At that point I didn't take it away because I saw her on marriedredpill and thought that it might be educational for her :D.

Anyways these are my indiscretions that she brought up:

  1. Based on my post history (1 starfish a month = grounds to next her) she accused me of willing to cheat on her if she doesn't put out. I agreed though did not amplify. I said you get my commitment and everything I bring into the relationship. If you don't put out it's like cheating on your vows. But then stated that it's a stupid hypothetical because her not putting out is not going to happen. I know I came out looking like an asshole and SJWs at /r/relationships would tell her to dump me for it, but I know this view is shared by many red pill aware men.

  2. She brought up me saying to a friend that one of the things I changed in myself is to become more selfish. That was from NMMNG and while I agreed with her that it's the truth, my examples of selfishness are joining a gym, buying nicer clothes and taking care of my house and my family because it brings me pride. So this is a good kind of selfishness - like good cholesterol, not all selfishness is bad.

I finished with I may say some things that you disagree with, but you can't argue with the results. We live healthier, our house is taken care of, I don't sit on my ass and watch TV and we both look better. So I sometimes make mistakes on my path of self improvement but results speak for themselves.

This may have been too much of blue pill rationalization but it did calm her down and we spent the rest of the evening having pleasant conversation. Unfortunately it did not end with sexy time so I know I screwed it up somewhere in there.

I think I'll take /u/whinemoreplease advice to lurk more and say/write less. I also need to stop looking at /r/relationships. It's like a car accident. Hard not to look, and half of the advice is crap that just aggravates you.