My LTR is on vacation in Mexico for the week. This trip was planned before I was in the picture. She’s there with 3 friends who all have boyfriends. The one just found out she’s pregnant.
Since me she has been begging me to go with her. But it just isn’t in the budget for me right now and I started a new job and couldn’t get off.
Up until the trip she kept saying how she didn’t want to go she didn’t want to leave me. And was crying the night before. I trust her. I do and I know I’m her alpha full blown. Since my MAP I’ve seen how things are supposed to work. She tells me everyday she never experienced someone like this.
So I just been letting go. Acting like it’s just another day. But my mind can’t help but creep in with hypergamic thoughts. “Hot girls. Mexico. Alcohol. Hit on Insecurity. Fuck this”....So I just been staying busy.
Only thing is she has been texting me. Calling me. And FaceTiming me non stop. I kind of treated it like a GNO scenario that rollo talks about. And encouraged her to go have fun. Enjoy herself and we’ll talk later. Still she’s texting me.
she’s honestly more worried about me cheating on while I’m gone than vise versa. She knows my past. I was the dude stealing everyone’s girl when I was single so that also adds to thoughts. I seems some shit first hand.
My question is as a good partner is it best to pack on the comfort in this situation. Or just let her do her own thing and not respond to text and calls till later in the day ?