LTR Management

innominating · 2018-11-28T14:55:33+00:00

All this is fine.

Read the commandments of poon and follow them. Give her a little less than she gives you. If she gives you a lot because you are the prize, you can give her a fair amount of beta comfort, because she earned it. Just make sure it is less than she gives you.

Always lift. Stay in shape. Keep improving.

Always make time for other men and go out and game other women a little.

Instill passive dread in your LTR. Make her jealous. Flirt with the waitress, but much better to have the waitress flirt with you and you act like it happens all the time.

If your LTR try’s to make you jealous, disregard, don’t mate guard, withdraw attention and give it to another woman.

Have firm boundaries. Assert them. Reward good behavior with beta. Never tolerate bad behavior.

You’ll be fine. Read the MRP sidebar. MMSLP will be good for you.

The_Litz · 2018-11-28T14:59:07+00:00

You chased the bus and caught it, what now?

The only advice I am going to give you... Wrap it up, you are in charge of BC.

rpsheepdog · 2018-11-28T14:45:34+00:00

Go to Married Red Pill, read through the levels of dread

laylow82 · 2018-11-28T15:06:06+00:00

Am I being a faggot?

Yes, but probably not for the reasons that you're thinking.

Sometimes I use dread on her or remove attention for a while.

I'm not really sure what you mean by "use dread" on her. Dread is something that should be constantly running in the background as the result of being a high value man with a busy life and abundant mindset. Don't be a try-hard faggot that feels like you always have to show her that you can get other women. If you truly are the prize, she'll feel that and adjust her behavior accordingly. Deliberately making her jealous is totally unnecessary if she's doing her part, and it reeks of desperation.

I started to let the beta shine a lot. We are deeply in the honeymoon phase. We are giving us cute nicknames and telling us how much we love each other and stuff. I cringe on the inside but I cant stop doing it.

If you're cringing at your own behaviors, what does that tell you about whose frame you're in? Some beta behavior is necessary in an LTR, but you can do it in a noncringeworthy way that is consistent with your own mindset.

It seems like your eyes are halfway open, but you really need to read the sidebar materials. The man you became after swallowing the pill is the man you need to be in an LTR. You're not changing who you are to accommodate a relationship, you're offering her a relationship because she adds value to your life, and you provide comfort to her (i.e beta) because you want to. The fact that you're asking if you should neglect her tells me that you're missing the overall point behind this.

hystericalbonding · 2018-11-28T15:18:47+00:00

We are giving us cute nicknames and telling us how much we love each other and stuff. I cringe on the inside but I cant stop doing it.

I missed the part of the sidebar where it said to stop having fun. Read Pook. Play with her. If you're not having fun, then next her.

The key to LTR is that you'll get treated like a bitch if you act like a bitch.

Chump_No_More · 2018-11-28T20:14:49+00:00

If you are a high value man, solidly in your frame, as your mental point of origin...

You don't have a strategy for LTRs. you have a mission in which everything else is secondary.
There is no Alpha with a side of Beta.
You don't create dread. You are dread incarnate.
You don't neglect the LTR, you prioritize yourself.

LTRs are a good exercise because they provide a metric for a newly RP'd man on his journey to determine how well he's internalized an Alpha Mindset.

Use your LTR as the anvil to harden your frame and the stone to hone your mission. And when she no longer adds value... Next.

You have more work to do. Get back to it.

mindfulbutgutless · 2018-11-28T15:01:14+00:00

Cut The Shit

redwall92 · 2018-11-28T15:02:07+00:00

The sidebar is for men to read. You don't exactly specify if you are a man or not in your post.

The sidebar does not require a man to be married, engaged, or in an LTR in order for benefit to be accrued from reading the sidebar.

You should read the sidebar.

red-sfpplus · 2018-11-28T18:59:19+00:00

unexperienced with women

So go hop in an LTR, that way you gets LOTS of experience.

Faggot.

You are 28. Go bang 28 women by spring break 2019. Ill challenge you. It will be good for you.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-11-28T15:40:29+00:00

Your focus is way off. If you need a daily playbook, try this: abacaba, select, start.

Just maintain a healthily dose of dread by keeping your SMV slightly above hers.

Build the life you want, have a vision, be the best version of yourself possible, and take her along for the ride.

TheThirdT · 2018-11-28T19:01:48+00:00

Nothing wrong with some beta behavior. Everything is relative to you being your own mental point of origin. You don't use dread...you are dread.

Questioning your actions, worrying about others actions, doing something that makes you cringe, seeking advice means that you have inner conflicts that you need to deal with.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-11-28T14:53:54+00:00

Troll

Title	LTR Management
Author	laylow82
Upvotes	16
Comments	27
Date	28 November 2018 02:40 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	askMRP
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/203771
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/a16rof/ltr_management/