The past year or so I got into MRP because I was a whiny little bitch in my relationship and it was tanking fast. Started upping dread, captaining the ship etc. I started slow because I read all the Rambo posts on here and wasn’t gonna tank the ship before it even left the harbor. I’ve stopped making her the center of my universe and have focused on myself, AA and AM shit tests out of the park and remove time when she says some shit to piss me off. I’ve recently started hanging out with some old friends about once a week at different dive bars around town or just cooking out at their place, drinking a few beers or going to the shooting range.
I still game my wife as much as possible, flirt and be the center of fun as well as provide comfort when needed and sex is for the most part very satisfying. Onto my point, last night I made a fire back in our fire pit and her and I were sitting around it with our two dogs. She looked visibly upset so I asked what was bothering her. What came out was emotional diarrhea for the most part but one thing struck me she said, “I’m afraid that if we ever broke up or things went bad you wouldn’t care, you wouldn’t fight to get me back, like it wouldn’t matter to you.” I didn’t really know how to respond so I STFU and gave her a hug and told her to stop worrying about hypotheticals. She calmed down and we had for the most part a good night. What I want to know is am I applying too much dread? Or not enough comfort? Or is she coming trying to cope with the changing power dynamic in the relationship?
Also lift regularly, am very fit and well groomed with a great job that I love. If you wanna see stats you can refer to my first FR post on marriedredpill
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