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OLTR and plates

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September 30, 2018

So I’m in an OLTR I also live with her. It’s been 6 years. I don’t do anything in front of her. Either elsewhere or when she’s at work. Things between us are great.

I will very often get interest on social media. Females sliding in my DMs. It’s effortless to get them to meet up or come over. I’m attractive. Jacked. Good game. We live in a huge house so it isn’t hard to get them over. The thing is when do I tell them about the GF.

I know most of you don’t do this kind of thing but some of you do and have for years

Should I tell them right when I feel they are going to be down to come over. Wait till they bring it up. What are your suggestions? If they ask if I have a girlfriend I usually just say it’s complicated and move on. They usually don’t bring it up again till later down the road.

But since I live with her and plan to bring them over when she’s not home I feel like they should be told about it

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Title OLTR and plates
Author DoubleDisatitagain
Upvotes 8
Comments 24
Date 30 September 2018 08:10 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/203958
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/9k9jpy/oltr_and_plates/
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[–]ex_addict_broRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

“I’m not doing exclusive relationships” is all they need to know

When they bring it up

[–]MrTrizzles4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

You’re a generous and brave man, inviting unknowns into your home. Girls have to seriously earn that kind of privilege with me and mine, and only a small percentage ever do.

[–]gameoflibidos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I agree with this. It only takes one "bat shit crazy" that you didn't recognize... they hide like chameleons. ... suddenly your car is getting keyed, windows broke with rocks, and you're filling out paperwork for a restraining order.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you lie, you always have to remember what you said. If you just do what you want and own it, you don't have to remember anything. You only have so many mental cpu cycles.

Is your mission in life to throw loads into Facebook tarts?

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

MRP is amoral.

Do whatever you are comfortable with

[–]DoubleDisatitagain0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

I’m asking what is the best way to present it to not scare her away

[–]johneyapocalypseThe one that says "Bad Motherfucker"17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy


[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes, either PowerPoint or excel

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please sit. Observe. You will see in the first column I have identified each of the women and have assigned them each an index number, for future reference. The second column is their SMV, followed by a matrix indicating what sexual activities each has submitted to. Continuing on, as you can see, each woman has an effectiveness score attached to them, as a means of comparing relative value. Do you want to see where you fit in in the breakdown graph?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Depends on the circumstances, but typically I do tell them (plus I usually wear a ring so it's not like it's a secret that I'm married).

You just have to own it. Some women will be put off, but others will see it as a positive because they know you aren't going to get too attached. Just use your judgment. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

[–]InChargeManRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I'm not cutout for monogamy. I've made this clear from day 1 and she loves me all the same."

This is you establishing frame, and also a shot across the bow that you are not to be on this rando's LTR prospect list, so she won't even try to get serious beyond good sex.

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Be wary of inviting crazy into your home. I'd seriously vet some rando strange before letting them know where my home address is. What happens when a plate wants to be upgraded and she shows up at your door with lasagna and a bottle of whiskey hoping to netflix and chill but your LTR opens the door?

You must think of all possible outcomes here.

[–]DoubleDisatitagain2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

3 some?

[–]UEMcGillI am become McGill, Destroyer of Blue Pill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If your frame is strong, go for it.

[–]honorocagan0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Why tell them?

[–]DoubleDisatitagain0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

What if they come over and see a picture of her. Or find out

[–]honorocagan1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Play it off as no big thing, that she’s cool with it. But if you make it a big thing then they’ll see it as a big thing. Breeze past it.

[–]DoubleDisatitagain1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

My thought is being transparent with it. Then it prevents drama. And I can tell right off the bat if she’s with it or not. Saves my time

[–]nastynickdrRed Beret0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

If I were you I would treat It just like exclusive talk regarding plates: its up to her to bring It up or not. And If she does, come clean, and its up to her to accept your terms not. Of course, dont make her feel like a cheap slut, but you should know that since ur good at game.

If she assumed you didnt have a GF for whatever resson, well, her problem. Just like when a plate assume exclusivity without you ever agreeing to.

[–]DoubleDisatitagain1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Here’s what I did because she’s 110% down to fuck. She’s sending nudes trying to set something up. Talking about fucking me. It’s in the bag. And she actually seems cool enough to keep around for a while.

I told her here’s the deal. Since I like being honest. I’m seeing someone but we see other people. If your uncomfortable with it. I understand. If not. We will continue as normal. You will never see her. And I won’t talk about it again unless you ask about it.

She said thanks for being honest for now she’s cool with it. And if that changes or she starts to get attached she will cut it off (yea right) or let me know.

So all I really got from that is “I’m cool with it for now and I have an understanding of what I’m getting into.” anything after that she said I won’t listen to bc I know how this things works. But I’m also good at handle it once I know they understand what’s happening and I don’t have to come out of the wood works like “surprise”

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m also good at handle it

Aww, you are worrying about hurting the girl's feelings. You are just dick number 144 on her extended ride.

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

when do I tell them about the GF

The question is not "when." The question is why?

Should I tell them right when I feel they are going to be down to come over. Wait till they bring it up. What are your suggestions?

I would tell them what will make them and you most comfortable with accomplishing the mission. Do you think a Tinder whore who comes over for a quick fuck cares to hear you brag about your girlfriend?

since I live with her and plan to bring them over when she’s not home I feel like they should be told about it

Nobody cares how you feel- especially the ONS Tinderbangs you are bagging. You already know how to deal with it later when she springs the "where is this going" talk. The rest is merely a fine example of the male hamster in operation.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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