Sexual tension

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January 12, 2018
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Loved the sarcasm in the “Anniversary Ideas” Post yesterday. Had me thinking... It’s funny, but also kind of sad, too.... For how many of us was this the Go-To plan in our marriages ? It sure was for me.

While we can deconstruct what OP was lacking in his post, everything really, one concept that stood out to me was the concept of creating sexual tension with my wife. Well, my complete lack of it pre MRP.

I always thought that my wife would or should want to fuck me for taking her out to a nice dinner, getting a baby sitter, buying an expensive present, etc. This would be my reward for being Nice and dedicating my life to her. Being a nice guy who didn’t force her to have sex. Bullshit. I was boring , predictable, vanilla, beta.

For newbs, She won’t automatically just want to suck your dick at the end of the night spontaneously (well, maybe for vets) Yes, do all the other things that make you attractive by reading the sidebar meterial, , but you Must stroke her responsive desire throughout the day. Remember, you are doing it for you, not her. Stick to basics: kino, text game, flirt, push/pull, just be awesome. Live your life in the Now.

I’ve been ramping this up last few days with my wife preparing for this weekend. It Was a busy fucking week. I started strong lifts too two weeks ago again after getting injured playing basketball, so I’m incredibly horny this week. Blood pumping. Imma fuck the piss out of her good.

Let her know this , tell her, you want her fucking body, want to ravish it . Ramp it up as the days go by. As my wife was leaving this morning for work, we kissed goodbye, I pulled her into me, pick her up and put on the edge of the counter, grinding, and said I couldn’t wait to rip off her panties off later on.... And I started to unzip her jeans , she was all giddy and laughing, licked my face, gave a wink and headed out the door. I knew she had to leave. We had no time. That wasn’t the point. I wasn’t doing it for her, it’s for me, It’s fun for me to do drive bys. She already text me flirty shit all morning. She is primed up for tonight.

For hard case Newbs, learn how to sexually escalate with your wife, first. Sex is a build up for her, starts in her mind first. She doesn’t just want to jump to the end of the story (sex) and insert dick in here- like us. Watch any dumb beta Rom Com movie, there’s a story first before he nails her.

Sex is a build up, and then release. It’s a dance. Everything is like this. Listen to the greatest composers (Mozart, Bach) on how they structured their melodies . It’s a slow build up, with spikes here and there, ramping up, a peak, and then release (or multiple .. if you’re good)

Everything needs tension in order to grow. Take a little acorn, it requires tension to expand enough to put enough hoop stress on it to cause it to split, and than attract nutrients from the earth in order to grow into a large powerful tree.

Walk into the tension. Don’t hide from it. Don’t avoid confrontation. That’s where you will grow too. Confront it with confidence. Feel it flow through you, acknowledge it, and walk right into it. When you walk into the tension, your wife will see you in a different light. Chicks don’t do this. It’s your job. Then, you will get those unsolicited BJs. That’s when you will know that your MAP is working.

Be a fucking man. Don’t jump to the end of the story, build it up.


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Title Sexual tension
Author Alpha_Engineer99
Upvotes 6
Comments 38
Date 12 January 2018 05:59 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204961
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/7pycqg/sexual_tension/
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[–]crimson_chris2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. One of the best thing that MRP reinstilled in me was escalating early. Never had a deadbedroom, but stopped flirting for a long time.

My wife was still in bed this morning. I gave her a kiss and then slipped down her shirt and sucked her nipple for a sec. She giggled and chastised me as I made my way out the door.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy

I’ve been ramping up last few days with my wife preparing for this weekend

This is where you lose me. Smells like a nice covert contract you’ve got brewing.

I also disagree about your story metaphor. We’re taking cues from romcoms now? My point is, you don’t need to build up tension over a long period before a cathartic sexual release happens, you just need to always be gaming.

I look at it more like spinning a basketball on your finger. To keep it spinning you have to make sure you’re always “checking in” (so to speak). A little ass smack here, a sexual joke there, a deep kiss in the midst of a stolen moment...whatever you do, you just gotta keep her mind engaged and in the right zone. This is something you need to be doing ALWAYS. Not in preparation for a weekend or some other special occasion.

[–]screechhaterRed Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well, you do you.

How about hitting the search bar. “Covert Contract”

[–]BobbyPeru1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP’s post is laced with covert contracts. Example, where he says the newbs shouldn’t expect to get laid from taking the wife on a date but the vets can expect it. He lost me right there. If I want to fuck my wife, I just fuck her. It’s that simple.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

If they’re newbs, and they are on this site, trust me when I say they can’t get laid.

[–]straius0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is semantics man. How long the tension rises, how long it persists, it isn't important. The lesson is the dynamic, not your preferred style and life gets in the way occasionally and when it does, it's fucking fine, no big deal.

Too much dick swinging ego in this thread considering the maxims here. The point is creating tension, how you do it... Not as important.

And man people love to act like txt game is next level shit. Just don't be needy and in constant contact, don't engage in anything serious, flirt if you want, send funny shit if you want, don't report your comings and goings. That's it.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] -5 points-4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Talking about the same fucking thing dip shit.

I Didnt say for a long period of time. Yes , always be doing. I’m specially talking about ramping it up to create that unbridled sexual tension with her... just waiting for it to explode. Designed Specially for me... this weekend, it can be whenever the fuck you want it to be.

Why are you “checking in” with your wife? let me know how that works.

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Guess you've never spun a basketball before. Makes sense, being an Engineer lol.

After you get the ball up to speed, it'll spin on it's own for a while but gradually lose momentum. He meant "checking in" as giving the ball a couple swipes to keep the momentum up and keep it spinning.

Not "checking in" as, "Hey honey, I'm at work... Hey sunshine, I'm leaving work now..."

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ha. I knew what he meant.

My point is that you can increase that momentum by ramping up more intense “checks”, more inputs, like a massive flywheel affect. At one point, it’s spinning so fast that it takes less and less inputs to keep it spinning and she is ready to explode. That’s been my game recently, instead of fucking in a random Thursday night, I double her spin for an epic session when I chose.

There’s an ebb and flow to it.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

The kino, teasing, push/pull, flirting, on off, constant gaming .....is the Rom Com asshole. It creates the Story. It’s called setting the stage. .

Not taking about acting like hue fucking grant and be lovey dovet bullshit and fucking prostitues on the side.

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

For hard case Newbs, learn how to sexually escalate with your wife, first.

The first thing Newbs need to do is LIFT, Sidebar and STFU.

I know cause I'm still a newb.

If you start sending eggplant emojis, unbuttoning her jeans, doing ass-grab drive-bys and escalating sexually, it's gonna feel rapey to her, not sexy.

Be attractive first. Don't be unattractive. THEN start escalating.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yep, didn’t mean to add the word “first” in there. Good catch.

I had almost a year of internal unfucking myself before I saw improvement in sex. That comes last.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Definitely start with some light drive bys though. After a few months she was doing drive bys to me. It’s good feedback.

[–]Reach180Red Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

I'd disagree to some extent. Don't look for a finish line where you are finally "attractive" before you start escalating sexually.

It (escalating) might piss her off, or trigger a harsh rejection. Roll with it - don't fear rejection.

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I agree. A lot of us haven't touched our wives in months or years. You definitely want to prime the engines.

Start with some light kino and ramp it up slowly so she gets used to the idea of you touching her as you progress. /u/BluePillProfessor breaks this down well.

But full on Chad escalation is gonna result in a butthurt beta, as we've seen in some of the askMRP posts lately.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (19 children) | Copy

OP was lacking in his post

Dude...

Stick to basics: kino, text game, flirt, push/pull, just be awesome.

Text game is not basics. Texted game is advanced shit. So is being awesome

tell her

Tell her, but dont speak in the process.

Ramp it up as the days go by

Wut? Days? More like hours dude.

I’m incredibly horny this week.

I am incredibly horny every moment of every day.

She is primed up for tonight

She needs to always be primed. What is with the scheduled shit?

Sex is a build up for her, starts in her mind first.

No it absolutely does not. It starts with her eyes, which is why we say LIFT, STFU and Read, and not take to up comedy classes until later on in your journey. If you look at yourself and would not fuck yourself, you are loosing.

Be a fucking man.

Preach.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] -5 points-4 points  (18 children) | Copy

suggest you give your love letter to her when she gets home from work today... and then go right into “ the Talk tm”.

Panties will become instantly soaked when she reads how much you love her but would like to work on just one little thing.....

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (17 children) | Copy

I fucked her before I left for work this morning, kido.

I do not wait until scheduled sex time like some of you faggots.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 0 points1 point  (16 children) | Copy

Ha. Now you are just confusing everyone 👍

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy

Just the people who dont know me.

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy

Maybe it's just me, but I get the feeling he doesn't realize you were fucking around...

For example, "While we can deconstruct what OP was lacking in his post, everything really..."

[–]Reach180Red Beret2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy

If it's some double switch anti-sarcasm just to fuck with /u/red-sfpplus , then bravo

However I suspect this is not the case.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Ha!

Isn’t that how Superman tricked the 3 lords into getting into the chamber which depleted their energy in Superman 2 ? The one with Richard Pryor?

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Richard Pryor was in Superman III. That movie does not exist.

[–]PersaeusRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Assuming you jest, because Superman 2 was definitely a (bad) movie. It’s only redeeming quality being that it’s a sloppy allegory for MRP. SM makes his woman his mission and predictably becomes a complete bitch. In the scene where the trucker kicks his ass and Louis comforts him you can literally see her vagina drying up,

Luckily he takes the red crystal , finds his balls , saves the planet, and still rails Lane.

[–]ImSteveMcQueen0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

See my post above about making /s mandatory when people are being sarcastic.

[–]Reach180Red Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

That kind of ruins the joke, doesn't it?

[–]ImSteveMcQueen0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just makes the joke clear to every one. Bc sometimes it isn't obvious.

[–]ImSteveMcQueen0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I wish people would make their sarcasm obvious with a /S. You can't tell with some of these people whether they are straight faced or tongue in cheek. Newbies are going to stumble on this stuff and get confused.

I think people should call out posters that don't use /s when they aren't being straight.

[–]Senor_Martillo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nah. That ruins the point of sarcasm!

[–]straius0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Nah, it just wasn't that funny. I applaud the attempt but we've had better snark. Plus it was followed up with a real post the next day in the same vein.

Perfect skittles ref on that 2nd one.

[–]Marcus_Aurtrillius0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

For a moment I thought the birthday post was another joke. Then I started reading and was like, "wait a minute, this dude is serious..."

"Skittles" definitely won the thread. Wish I could have upvoted it more.

[–]straius0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Lol, I did the same thing. I was like "oh ffs, be original dude..." and then "oh... he for real."

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Wait, that post was for real?! I thought it was satire all the way.

[–]bogeyd6Mod / Red Militia0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How can you run with the wolves at night when you spend all day playing with the puppies? Honestly, I am disappointed.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

This is a good post and belongs on the main sub. Can you re post it there, the main sub is barren and needs some new talking points.

[–]Alpha_Engineer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks. Glad a few people saw some value from it. I got reamed from some vets for posting this. A lot of hate mail too.



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