Wife going on a day trip, should I care about this?

2017-07-19T12:28:39+00:00

Cant speak for the enlightened NewMen who dont lift and are afraid to ruffle a womans feathers so here is the grade A shitlord response

Honey, you want to go party with your single friends and their boyfriends without me then go. Just know that its inappropriate and Ill take that as a sign that I too can enjoy some beachtrips with single ladies. We can still play house and raise the kids and fuck....but if you want non exclusivity than I support that for us.

Bottom line..its a shit test and your boundries are under attack. Let her call you controlling and untrusting. Revel in it like a grinning bastard who has 2 honeys picked out for his own damn beachtrip.

Make her live in fear of your actions. Right now, you are in her frame and that's the real isse and what is gonna make her fall on some dick and say it "just happened"

starky000001 · 2017-07-19T05:55:36+00:00

She has probably already fucked him.

dandar4600 · 2017-07-19T14:03:13+00:00

11 months ago you had an ex and a friend with benefits and were red pill aware. Fuck you did not even have an LTR, yet here you are now married and wondering whether to show her just how low value you are by trying to prevent her from going to the beach with her friends.

I'd ask yourself this first. What the fuck happened in last 11 months and then work on fixing that first.

starky000001 · 2017-07-19T05:01:47+00:00

So we hang out with our neighbors (couples mostly, a few single guys) fairly often. Some of them are obviously into my wife. "Joking" innuendo every chance they get, checking her out, longer than normal hug goodbye, etc. I don't worry about them hanging out all day (in a group setting), I know without a doubt I'm a higher value man than these dudes and she would agree with my assessment. And she laughs along with them knowing the minute she gets uncomfortable and wants my help, there will be an immediate direct confrontation. So we have no problems there.

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Then there's other random dudes that she meets through her daily life when I'm not around- strangers that I never meet. I'm pretty confident she's not going to run across a guy hitting on her with such a higher smv than me that her panties evaporate and she fucks him on the spot. And I trust her not to act that way. And that's as good as it gets, no guarantees in life.

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Which one of those categories does this guy fall into, and do you trust your girl? Has she ever given you a reason to doubt? Kill your ego and look at the facts. You already know the answer better than we do. It's either just your hamster trying to spin up based on your own insecurities, or you wanting to rationalize away what your gut is telling you.

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starky000001 · 2017-07-19T05:18:10+00:00

she's probably going to trip and fall on some dick.

Should I be giving a Fuck about this or this guy.

are you seriously trying to crowdsource your decision making? let me start then - you should sit down to piss.

starky000001 · 2017-07-19T12:31:10+00:00

she's loyal to me

No, she isnt. AWALT. It's just your turn. The possibility that her and her friends have a huge orgy and she's riding his cock is possible.

She's not loyal, but she'd be stupid to stray right? She sees the value you add right? She knows you have options and OI and the ability to live without her right? If she knows what's good for her she won't cheat on you but if she does you still see a positive future right? Because you're an awesome guy who doesn't need to mate guard.....right???

ReddJive · 2017-07-19T13:55:43+00:00

you're being shit tested. how would an alpha handle this?

So what if chad thudnercock is there. If your girl is hot there have been many chads's walking around. AN alpha doesn't worry such shit. IF he finds out then she's done.

Are you the alpha that has shit in control and know? If she cheats there ain't thing one you can do about it other them move on and find the next.

anythinginc · 2017-07-19T15:10:10+00:00

Why aren't you going? Oh right, this is a girls trip. Why is he going then? Oh right, he is a controlling insecure asshole that your wife dislikes.

That is your line, AMOG him a little before your wife leaves;

Sucks that Cindy is in a relationship with an insecure, controlling asshole who inserts himself into a girls trip to keep an eye on her. Sucks you are going to have to deal with that, hopefully he'll behave, don't let it ruin your trip baby, have a good time.

Then forget about it. If she was gonna fuck him she could do it anytime, before, now, later, and wouldn't get sand in her pussy or piss off Cindy.

Now, if all their BFs are going but you, then I would be worried, but not about her cheating on the trip, but just from knowing that she doesn't value me or want me around. That would kick my self-improvement into high gear. Don't angle for this now though, you'll be able to glean the info of who went when she gets back.

trpbritguy · 2017-07-19T07:58:02+00:00

Nope, you shouldn't care!

You can't stop her from cheating. You can only make it not worth cheating.. Either way makes no odds, if she's going to cheat, she will and if she's going to cheat, next her!

Wel108 · 2017-07-19T12:16:11+00:00

Let it be. But pay attention to her actions post trip. Where there's smoke there's fire.

cholomite · 2017-07-19T12:24:41+00:00

If she wants to fuck another guy, she'll do it regardless of whether or not you care about it and throw a temper tantrum. Sitting around worrying about it won't do shit, it will actually make it worse. Don't be so fucking insecure, is this the only girl on the planet you can get? I doubt it.

Chill the fuck out, go do your own manly shit, and let her have fun with her girlfriends. Nothing is more beta than sitting around pissing yourself at the thought of another guy.

askmeanything2 · 2017-07-19T20:52:58+00:00

Disagree with the don't care folks, and I'm not one for mate guarding.

This is the second time in a few weeks where what was supposed to be a girls only event (GNO, girls go to the beach) has actually involved one or more guys, and you know one of the guys makes your wife uncomfortable. Your wife knows this crosses the line.

I would approach it like this: why are your girlfriends not independent enough that they need to bring their boyfriends to a girls only event? How do you (your wife) feel about boyfriends intruding on your girl time together?

Title	Wife going on a day trip, should I care about this?
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Date	July 19, 2017 4:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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