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May 25, 2017

This is something I've learned only through reading posts. What book is this from as I would like to learn more about it.

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Title DEER
Author MaxyRob
Upvotes 10
Comments 9
Date 25 May 2017 08:05 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
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[–]drty_prRed Beret27 points28 points  (4 children) | Copy

If someone said:

"u/MaxyRob, your such a fag for not knowing this"

and you said:

(Defend) I've fuckin looked everywhere! (Excuse) I just can't find it. (Explain) Do you know how hard it is to find information in this sub? (Rationalize) Maybe if someone wrote a detailed post on it and it was archived in the sidebar, I would have to look like such a fag asking this shit.

[–]sh0ckley5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]CasperTFG_8084 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be careful someone might think you are mansplaining. Oh I forgot this is our safe space. Jokes aside stellar explanation.

[–]Clapboom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fucking perfection.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

now give a few non-DEER responses

[–]BobbyPeru6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

NMMNG, but it only talks about it briefly. Lots of great posts on it here.

Pretty basic, but very eye opening once you start analyzing how much you:

D efend E xplain E xcuse R ationalize

The side bar readings give other tools to avoid DEERing such as fogging, STFU, Agree and augment, amused mastery, pressure flip... Etc

[–]mrpCamper0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It's been over a year since I read them and I often confuse the two. However, isn't some of that more from WISNIFG? Especially fogging.

[–]innominating5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

NMMNG talks directly about it.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's also known elsewhere as JADE

Justify - Argue - Defend - Explain

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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