Like many others on here I'm trying to improve my overall outlook on life and how I feel about myself. I'm 18 months in and some things have improved massively for me others have stayed the same. I'm still extremely unsatisfied with my sex life with miss soberskipper and I really don't have time to be spinning plates anymore, I've tried it but with kids, businesses, hobbies and family life it's a pain in the arse. The cons outweighed the pros once I gained complete abundance mentality and outcome independence. It was fun while it lasted.

I initiate with miss soberskipper at least 4-5 times a week and success rate probably 1 in 7. So yeah I'm still not attractive enough, there are many improvements to my frame needed, and she really doesn't respond to my gaming like other women do.

Throughout the process I've had all the excuses about low libido including birth control, so she went from the pill to this injection(she also claims to have irregular periods from the pill in which time any sexual activities are off the table, this is a half truth she has lied before about been on her period like many others to get out of been intimate) . She then blamed her weight gain on this new injection, nothing to do with the fact she sits on her arse every night binge eating shit and never excersises EVER. She's also recently hit the wall.

So now it's condoms all the way. I fucking hate condoms, you fuck a prostitute with a condom not the woman who intends to be your wife. She's never bought them either, which to me is a sign that's she's not bothered. I don't want to be all Feels on the forum but don't feel close to her without bare back sex, I feel it's an insult that she doesn't WANT to have unprotected sex. I've gently raised the issue by saying she should go back on the pill as we've established that it's not the pill that's causing her irregular periods, shitty moods, low libido, depression and weight gain. Her reply was basically no way there's no need it's pointless. I said don't you prefer unprotected sex her reply she can hardly tell the difference. I just stfu.

Am I been too mentally weak, soft and over analysing the situation or would you guys also feel disrespected, unattractive, unwanted and Disgusting if your wives and gfs didn't want unprotected sex?

Ps. sex quality is good 6/10 times once she's into it, the others are starfish from her so I go caveman. I've mastered her orgasms so weather I'm trying or not she pretty much always comes which is a good thing I suppose. I'm in great shape been lifting heavy 2 years and Competing at a high amateur level in ju jitsu.

Edit: thanks for the constructive responses, I appreciate the feedback. The answer was fucking simple really, we went to have sex on her period In the shower and I just took over, n thought I raw dogging this shit, stood her up in the side of the bathtub, she was swinging from the shower curtain rail like a monkey and did a few Standing up positions/angles that we haven't tried before. Totally bareback, as I just took over she didn't hesitate once, I then told her(dirty talk whilst I had her bent over)I'm having that pussy bareback for the rest of our lives because my dicks too good for her to wrap up and she moaned like fuck and agreed. I bust inside her and she loved it. Said she missed it. Went out on her own the next morning for the morning after pill and re booked the injection with the doctors. Now I Have to get her in the gym and I definitely feel huge progress in a our relationship has been made. But the gym for her is key.