3rd sub possibility?

I think a sub called say r/MRPintro would be great to filter out the puke that floods this sub.

Solution looking for a problem. A few puke/intro question posts get moved from MRP to AMRP every week, no biggie. A lot of first posts happen in OYS, great, indeed it is encouraged. Then if you feel you need more attention than an OYS post gets then ask away at AMRP. I think puke is great here though, it is what we do.

Both subs can go a day or two without a new post so it is not like we are overrun.

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3h0uv8/meta_subreddit_fragmentation/

A year ago Jackten mentions that he replies to mostly the following types of posts:

A. Questions seeking help. A guy posting about his personal circumstances and marriage, and seeking insight or advice from the MRP community at-large. This is further sub-categorized as:

• A1. The full victim-puke. A guy stumbles in here, no sidebar reading, barely any clue about TRP, dumping his entire life story and wondering why his wife stopped fucking his beta ass.

• A2. The misguided approach. A guy part-way through unplugging, hits some roadblock in his marriage. Such as self-improvement isn't yielding more sex, or he's struggling to determine Shit vs Comfort Tests, or there's some family logistical problem is making it especially hard to maintain frame. There is an understanding of fundamental Red Pill principles, but the OP can't quite figure out how to apply them to his own circumstances.

• A3. The legitimate conundrum. A fully unplugged guy with a pretty unique scenario, almost presented as a thought exercise. A good recent example is /u/TrainingTheBrain's recent issues in his marriage.

Those posts get moved to, or are encouraged to be posted in the "bullshit sub," AMRP, but once they were there, they didn't get any replies.

Coincidentally, I also mostly respond to those types of posts, and I kinda agree that it sucks that the dudes that need help are moved from a sub that is ostensibly full of 12,000 "woke" subscribers to 2,700 "newb" subscribers.

That said, I feel that the mod team must be doing a better job than a year ago, because I don't feel like men are getting short-changed by posting in AMRP, and I feel like almost all of jack's "A123" posts are moved to AMRP. I see the same seasoned names posting in both subs, I see a few Red Berets in every post. I don't think the post is limited by lack of views, it is more often limited by lack of OP participation. Regardless, posts often hit 60-70 replies in AMRP. If a post doesn't get many replies it is because it was super low effort, or somebody nailed a comment and its singularity and up-votes serve to amplify the message to OP. In MRP you might get an opportunity to post a couple times a week, the guys that want to post and want to help are going to find AMRP and help people. The ubiquitousness of the TRP/ATRP dichotomy also highlights and foreshadows our MRP/AMRP dichotomy for the men that find us.

When AMRP turns into ATRP, with 30K subscribers and 50 posts a day with 99% of the replies being pithy comments and "NEXT, lift, sidebar," then we will have a problem that needs a solution, assuming we don't have enough experienced posters and mods to handle the volume..but maybe we will, see you there.

Maybe if you didn't need to moderate the first posts so much and let the wolves have them in a sub geared specifically for that, it would be easier?

OYS is pretty friendly, people respect the guys making that effort, and there is a lot of empathy in there. Step out of there with some weak shit and you deserve some lumps. It's at the top of MRP, in red.

But I don't get any replies in OYS

Yeah, and like you just said u/drty_pr, you don't want those replies...because some will be "the wolves."

That said, AMRP, isn't all wolves, there is a lot of empathy in there too, sometimes provided by me in particular. And you wanted replies anyway right? So they are going to run the spectrum. You ever spilled your guts to a group of buddies? One is going to hug you, one is going to tell you what you want to hear, one is going to give you some advice, and one is going to kick you in your balls and laugh....you need all of them.

You seem to think we are running people away with AMRP wolves and moderation, but I think the mods et al do a good job of sending those people to OYS, or they read and internalize and try again. OPs delete more shit than the mods ever have. That urge to puke, followed by the urge to delete out of shame or rage or ego..those urges are what lead to change and action.

the puke that floods this sub.

I think puke is great here though, it is what we do. Plus, I need to read it. I need to remember what my past was like. I need to remember what the alternative is like. Good field reports do not motivate me at all, I'm living them, how could they motivate me?...but puke, puke motivates me because I REMEMBER, and I am reminded that I can't go back, the results are in front of me, 1000s of words, no paragraphs, no joy, no respect, no sex.