Dead bedroom

Aaren_Augustine · 2016-11-30T07:08:07+00:00

What is a reasonable expectation for sex with a dead bedroom when starting out?

Zero expectations. Your wife will participate or she won't when you initiate. You must focus on improving yourself for yourself, not for the expectation that your wife will fuck you.

Lift, succeed, dominate.

SexistFlyingPig · 2016-11-30T07:02:41+00:00

You are missing the point.

Two bulls standing on top of the hill are looking down at a herd of cows. The young bull says to the old bull, "Let's run down there and fuck one of those cows!" The old bull replies, "Let's walk down there and fuck all the cows."

Your goal is to get yourself put together enough that lots of women find you attractive. Step zero is to lift and to improve your wardrobe. Also improve your hygiene: shower, deodorant, shave or groom your beard. This will give you confidence. Confidence is attractive.

While working on yourself, you also need to right the ship of your marriage. You need to decide where you are going and how you are going to get there. You are the captain of the ship. You are the responsible one. Your wife should be your first mate. You should give her responsibilities, but you should be the director, the leader, the captain of the ship.

The_Litz · 2016-11-30T08:15:42+00:00

How long is a piece of rope?

Build yourself without expectation. And if in doubt, tons of guys including myself came over from Deadbedrooms and are reaping the rewards. Am I getting enough sex? No. Am I getting way more sex, bj's and attention than before RP? Yes.

Initially most guys have NOOB gains. New found confidence and a can do attitude. Then the wife will increase the testing to see if you are for real or faking it. You will have many ups and downs, and sex will vary accordingly.

Some wives will hand over the wheel with pleasure, others will fight to the last drop of blood to stay in control.

redearththeory · 2016-11-30T11:04:09+00:00

Your expectation is a covert contract, drop it completely as its part of your problem.

Make progress until you're hot, which is probably 6 months if you work hard.

NONO226 · 2016-11-30T13:42:26+00:00

i asked this same question just recently and received perfect feedback. heres the link so you can see how everyone responded. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5dl0bo/if_awalt_when_can_one_reasonably_expect_to_see_a/

onmyownpath · 2016-11-30T07:25:03+00:00

Initiate anytime you want to fuck.

Sepean · 2016-11-30T07:43:22+00:00

It depends on your starting point, how quickly you learn, how disciplined you are, your potential, and your wife. Most guys who apply themselves see results in 2 weeks to 12 months.

SampsonBrass · 2016-11-30T11:49:03+00:00

in your case, who the hell knows? Not everyone starts from the same point and you don't provide much information.

Thomaskingo · 2016-11-30T20:52:09+00:00

What is a reasonable expectation for sex with a dead bedroom when starting out?

Well MRP can almost guarantee you regular sex and a happy relationship within 6 months to a couple of years. The thing is though, that MRP can't guarantee it'll be with the woman you're currently married. Sometimes, it just doesn't work out, because it simply can't, but you can grow and move on.

ex_addict_bro · 2016-11-30T08:22:04+00:00

Stand in the front of a mirror, undress. Say loudly "would I fuck me?" and meditate on this question for a moment. No need to tuck it between your legs.

EDIT: If you meditated properly, this also should give you answers on "am I lifting often enough", "is my lifting routine proper", "is my diet helping me reach my fitness goals", "should I start another family alpha blog", "should I STFU and lift" and all this kind of stuff.

TheFamilyAlpha · 2016-11-30T12:14:53+00:00

When you're sexy.

How long does that take?

How fat and insecure are you?

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/17/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/creating-your-slut/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/02/15/lifting-is-step-1-towards-reclaiming-your-masculinity/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/06/are-you-a-funny-fat-guy/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/10/25/stop-being-a-clown/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/20/break-the-mold/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/11/16/burn-your-ship/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/11/24/action-not-vows-is-what-your-marriage-needs/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/15/be-unpredictable/

https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/01/09/sex-marriage/

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2016-11-30T16:34:30+00:00

How does the answer matter?

screechhater · 2016-12-01T01:00:47+00:00

"reasonable expectation for sex with a dead bedroom when starting out"

depends - what the fuck did you not do to get to the DB ?

Lack of shower and she can smell your rot ?

Lack of manners ?

Weak leadership ?

etc, etc, etc................

Reading identifies this - then you might clearly see that the time it took to the DB cannot be magically waived over. Also know as she wants some consistency in your improvement

Glad your lifting.....

Title	Dead bedroom
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	24
Date	November 30, 2016 6:02 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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