32 y/o, wife 31, married 7, together 12, 3 kids (5, 7, 9) I've been on the sub for a few months and wall flowering for a few months before that. I've learned so much and never have I been happier in my whole life. Except for pussy. It still sucks. Not sure if she will ever want to fuck me, but I still need to go through the process to see if it can be fixed.

I'm dressing way better, getting out of the house a lot, swatting shit tests and leading almost every aspect of our lives. So I'm starting to dabble with level 6 dread.

It's coming with the fears I'm sure most people experience. Failure, awkwardness, ridicule and embarrassment. I can accept all of these over time with practice.

My problem is, I live in a town of 10,000. I mean, I always see girls I don't know, but would they be as receptive as chick in a bigger city to my game? Being that dudes aren't trying to pick them up on the regular?

It also seems more possible word could get back to my wife that I'm trying to get chicks digits?

Are these rational concerns? Or am I making excuses for being a fucking pussy?