Questions from a Single guy.

Trekneck · 2015-09-22T15:44:44+00:00

Speaking solely to your points about finances and moving to this country, I have several Indian friends who have moved here and done well. One in particular was a psychologist in India, moved here and worked for me years back detailing cars, as his degree was useless in the States. He ended up moving back to India 2 years ago and is absolutely prospering, even met a girl from what I have seen (he lost his virginity while living here, though had a VERY difficult time getting into LTR for some reason, he was very much beta BP and small in stature).

Moving to the states will indeed be a culture shock, but I have seen very, very large Indian communities in my area who have not only adapted to western culture but thrived in it, within their own communities (almost learned Hindi just to be able to communicate with them better).

From my knowledge of India, I would almost say stay there, your country seems to be on an incredible rise that may turn it into a completely different place in the next 10 years, completely void of western bullshit.

whinemoreplease · 2015-09-23T06:30:58+00:00

feminism has taken root in india. so has the cock carousel. but you're thinking about so much ridiculous shit you can't control. waste of your time.

edit, you know what, you're a 24 year old virgin. how many female friends do you have? i'd bet none. go fucking interact with the opposite sex before you think about bigger dumber shit.

Archwinger · 2015-09-22T15:51:35+00:00

I think you'd need an Indian man in an arranged marriage to tell you how well or poorly that works. Most US/European Red Pill advocates really can't speak to married life in India.

However, the general advice still applies. You need to be as badass as possible so that your wife eagerly and enthusiastically fucks your brains out and can't get enough of you. You need to be physically fit, professionally successful, socially apt, a great leader, confident, versed in useful skills and interesting hobbies, and handle shit around your house (your wife included) like a man. Just because your marriage is arranged in a country with low divorce and your wife will be a virgin doesn't mean your marital sex life happens automatically. You still need to be a masculine badass.

As for your general question: Is sex worth the responsibility/trouble of marriage -- no. You don't get married for sex. Sex is easy enough to come by without the hassle and stupidity of marriage. There are other reasons to get married, but you don't get married just for sex.

I was terrible with kids before marriage. Awkward with them. Could barely hold them right. It's different with your own kids. I still suck with other people's kids.

Is life better in first world countries? Yes, in many ways. No as far as women, marriage, sex, and relationships are concerned. Many men from conservative societies have moved to the USA for a better life, and lost their wives and daughters to our shitty, entitled first world culture. You'd never think a conservative Indian virgin bride would suddenly stop keeping house, caring for kids, and suddenly start gong out fucking randoms, but it happens. Take away the consequences of bad behavior, and what's anybody's reason for avoiding it?

Is it worth the trouble of moving, what's being a FOB like, etc. etc.? You can master whatever culture you put your mind to. People don't like Indian men, though. We used to see at least one question a week on TRP from some jackass Indian guy lamenting about how nothing he does works because no woman can see past his ethnicity. Meanwhile, Indian women are getting fucked left and right by white guys until they're 28, then pretending they're sexually conservative so they can be married off to a nice Indian boy who takes care of them while they deny him sex for the next decade.

Personally, if it were me, and I had a wife and kids, I'd want to raise them in a developed nation despite the risks. But I can see a lot of good reasons not to.

enfier · 2015-09-23T00:41:59+00:00

Take everything I say with a big grain of salt since I'm not Indian.

From what I understand, Indian girls still have sex before they get married, they are just pretty quiet about it. The Indian girls over here certainly are known to ride the CC with white guys before settling down for an Indian beta. I don't know if there's any social stigma associated with a guy not being a virgin over there, but I doubt it. Also, is AF/BB at least tacitly tolerated where you are? That would make marriage a tougher proposition.

If you want sex, go get some sex. If you can't in your culture, go "traveling" and get laid somewhere else. Sex is like air - it's only a big deal when you haven't got any.

I would get married in your condition, but I'd lose all expectations of it making you happy. If you aren't happy before getting married, you aren't going to be happy after you get married. Sex is not worth the responsibility and trouble of marriage, but the stability of the family unit is great for raising kids. I strongly suspect that your view to kids will change over the years. Of course there's no rush for marriage. Assuming that you can get sex, you might as well wait until you are at the top of your game around 30.

Life is much better in 1st world countries. However you've got to realize that SMV for a male doesn't always translate well across cultures. You may need to adapt and learn and the color of your skin might relegate you to a lower SMV social status. Plus, all the other guys might be taller than you and that's tough as well. Don't expect to step off the boat and find that white girls are all over you, you are likely to find the deck stacked against you. RP knowledge will of course help you a lot as it's mostly written in 1st world cultures and you'll probably do fine. Or you won't - whatever, save your money, invest it, move back home and live like a king.

Please don't take any offense at this, but the Indian guys here seem pretty low in SMV. They typically don't lift, they are short, many smell bad, they don't dress well, are overly flashy when trying to dress well, they don't speak English very well and have some difficulty with US culture. However, you already lift and it's pretty easy to smell good and dress well and English and cultural fit won't take long if you are motivated and work on it.

I'd come out here, work for a few years, invest it and then figure out what you want to do. Don't be upset if it's not everything you hoped it to be. You certainly can move back to India, get your HB8 wife and live out the standard life.

spexer · 2015-09-23T12:49:40+00:00

you should be thinking about decisions on marriage, kids etc - until you have had multiple relationships.

Lose that virginity.

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