Hi, I’m probably really emotional right now. I’ve been with my partner for over 2 years. We’re currently long distance. (Just going to add the usual we love each other very much, and I’m very satisfied in our relationship in general).

This morning we were sexting. And I essentially sent him a very long confessional sort of sext for all my fantasies and things I would like us to engage in. (During this time he was able to have fun with it, but I didn’t have privacy)

He must have enjoyed it because he had a good experience with it, with a happy ending.

But now I feel really resentful because I put all this time and effort into this and I really expected an emotional deep dive into all the aspects and how he felt about them/if they excited him as much as me.

But what ended up happening was a sweet thank you and we both moved on with our day. I’ve just cried and told him this hurt me and that I wanted something more.

Tldr ~ Am I crazy? I feel like his easy going attitude and my emotional needs often don’t align.