1. This is most important. You have to love being single so much that giving it up sounds unappealing. A man is gonna have to bring A LOT to the table for you to give up your single life. Relish in being single, cuz it is amazing. Live all your free time like you're Tom Cruise in Risky Business. Enjoy yourself and be asshole confident. Fuck all them hoez.
  2. No excuses EVER. If you find yourself making one excuse for a man before making it official, just move the fuck on. "Well, technically he does have a car... it just doesn't work right now." "He's inbetween jobs." "He says he isn't ready right now, just needs time..." Girl, cut that shit off, it is CANCER!!!
  3. The thought of paying for anything before commitment should appall you. I hadn't found FDS prior to meeting a HVM, but every time my girlfriends would pay for some dude's tabs I'd roll my eyes. My parents raised me to look at that weak shit with disgust. If you are looking for a provider, them not being able to shell out few hundreds in the first month or two of dating should be HORRIFYING. Run, run, run. We bring too much to the table to settle for scrubs.
  4. A HVM is REASONABLE. A HVM would come to FDS, read our rules, and say "That seems logical." They wouldn't think twice about it. A HVM thinks women are generally superior. Pay attention to interviews with HVM. For example, in interviews with Barack Obama he will usually mention something about women being the more level headed sex. HVM respect and admire women. They understand that we are goddesses and they are plebeians to our blessed wombs. HVM know what an honor it is to get to love a woman.