So I read in the “I get it! No you don’t!” sidebar thread that when starting RP as a married man, one has to be careful in how much change is enacted in the home at the start. Rambo RP is not good for married men especially.

This subtle introduction of RP as I improve my SMV and build dread levels (I started ten days ago with this but already have a decent fitness foundation but am admittedly an awful beta) left me in a weird position today.

I was test driving a vehicle I intended to buy and as my wife had dropped me off at the dealership, I called her to let her know I liked the car and intended to buy it. She asked me about it so I got excited and told her some of the things I liked about it. She then specifically asked about the seat cover material and she didn’t like it. She started going negative about it so I ignored her but she kept on about it. I eventually said that I didn’t want to talk about the seat covers and moved on. Of course that set her off so she started nagging about it and I got off the phone immediately.

Later on when I got home, she cornered me in the bedroom to tell me how disrespectful I was and that I was being ridiculous and hurt her feelings. I thought I smelled a shit test and an opportunity for verbal intercourse, so I got up to leave the room. Then I remembered the thread’s advice and stopped. I started explaining what I was feeling and thinking about it while knowing she was about to own me with her expert female-affect rhetoric. I wasn’t sure what to do at that point so I awkwardly threw in a little AM, a little STFU, and a little arguing with her. She ran circles around me and painted me being an asshole and then said, “Aren’t you going to apologize?”

I said no and walked out of the room.

She hasn’t spoken to me in four hours outside of basic things for the kids.

This all comes a day after having an awesome day where I started Game in the morning, flirted sexually all day through texts, and started kino in the evening......and she went to sleep at 830pm on the couch. Apologized “for making me mad” when she came to bed and I was half asleep. Then asked if I wanted to take a shower with her and I said no and went to sleep.

She woke up this morning to have sex before the kids got up but I had plans to meet a buddy at the gym. I chose the gym.

Should I ignore her the rest of the night? Certainly not apologize, right?

Or should I follow the threads advice to keep things normal now, which would mean I apologize for it.