HuffPost reveals the truth: Women want to be treated like prostitutes in bed.

Obio1 · 2015-05-19T11:59:13+00:00

Damn. Here's a woman who talks about how her sex life was unsatisfying and that she went to her therapist for help.

Which is fine.

But then:

I've been a sex columnist

Great. So that's where women and blue-pill men get their ideas about how sex should be. From a clueless and unsatisfied woman.

Then they decide to change their sex life to pretty much what TRP endorses and suddenly she is happy.

Cyralea · 2015-05-19T13:19:09+00:00

My therapist, who is often a place of temperate permission, explained that she believes, and I quote: The ravishment fantasy is most likely the rule for women, rather than the exception

This is probably the hardest-hitting RP truth I've seen in that trashdump of a newspaper.

Women want to be raped by a high-value man. Easily my most controversial post, I still get hatemail for it to this day. It's one of those truths that completely shatters the illusion of the sexually pure woman.

cmiovino · 2015-05-19T15:37:40+00:00

From the comments section: "thus confirming what every successful guy with women knew already, treat them like crap and you'll never get rid of them"

He must be from here.

newspaper_nerd · 2015-05-19T15:39:54+00:00

"dancing with lovely men who made me feel fun, sexy and beautiful"

They are lovely only because they made her feel that way, not because of who they are.

The_Natty_King · 2015-05-19T13:30:25+00:00

Women don't know what they want. That's the same type of rag that will want up one day and go, "I feel disrespected now". Men should do as they please as a prime directive, only associate with women who share your mindset.

[deleted] · 2015-05-19T12:43:15+00:00

Of course they want to treated like a prostitute. They want you to leave money on the nightstand.

scamper_22 · 2015-05-20T19:37:53+00:00

It is sadly the sick joke and confusing as shit for men, but it is what it is.

It doesn't matter if it is sex, life choices... this is the rule.

You as the man need to act, and she can blame you for any downside... and here's the biggy... there's a downside for pretty much any choice.

She wants to be ravished, and then if she feels used, she wants to be able to blame you.

As I said, everything has a downside, and she wants to blame you for it, even though some action is needed to be taken.

If kids are born and someone has to stay home with the kids. She wants to blame you for her giving up her career. Or for putting all the financial stress on her. Or for being close to the in-laws, which adds to her stress.

So just act, and accept she is going to have a million complaints.

rolling_n_stoned · 2015-05-19T17:36:46+00:00

I go to one of the most liberal universities in America (STEM program is great though) so me and my fraternity bros deal with stupid feminazis all the time.

We have a running game to see who can do the most degrading thing to a self professed "feminist" and so far the results have been as you wold expect, laughable. These girls don't believe any of the feminist bullshit they spew and every single one of them are voraciously hungry for cock. So far the worst I've done is nut in a girls hair and kick her out immediately after before she could clean up. Best believe she was blowing up my phone all next week

IronMeltsinmyHands · 2015-05-19T15:01:44+00:00

'I want him to have raunchy sex with me and talk to me as though he just met me and cares nothing about what I want. I want him to ravish me like an animal and tell me to be quiet whenever I try to say something.'

My oh my.

Where do I begin. Here is the one thing you need to know. Fuck her like you don't give a shit.

And treat her that way

thekidfromthegutter · 2015-05-19T17:59:44+00:00

Am I the only one who's more baffled the idea of 50 years old lady with children and a husband dancing around in a gay club so she can get attention from gay men?

edwardhwhite · 2015-05-19T15:45:21+00:00

what's really interesting is how she hamsters by making a distinction between "real life" and what a woman wants in bed. As if real life stops at the bedroom door or that the bedroom door doesn't extend into her real life.

Its gonna suck when RP is conventional wisdom again. Because its fun now.

LastRevision · 2015-05-19T12:18:36+00:00

"Though I wanted to shake things up, I knew swinging, polyamory or, in turn-of-the-century Lady Mary/"Downton Abbey" vernacular, "taking a lover" would be the death knell of my treasured marriage, therefore not the kind of "shaking things up" I wanted to do.

So, I turned to my man for help."

Her first thought was to cheat. Of course. FTW.

richardguy · 2015-05-19T13:05:50+00:00

Lol at the comments. You can't change feminists' minds.

TwoHandsAndAHead · 2015-05-19T21:22:17+00:00

Can confirm. You need to remember that you are there to fulfill your needs as well, but from my experience it is going to be a better experience for both of you if you don't hold back. Obviously i'm not talking about physically abusing the chick, but you'd be surprised how many dudes are afraid of just grabbing her by her hair, kissing her deeply, spinning her around, bending her over and smacking her ass a few good times. As is the case with most interactions with women, she wants you to make the decisions. This is damn close to being 100% of the time when it comes to sex. Let your instincts take over. Stop thinking about how she wants to be fucked, and do it how you want. Be animalistic. Grab her when and where you want to. TELL her to get in this position or that, don't ask what she wants next. This is not misogyny or abuse or whatever the feminist/ blue pill pansies want to call it. If she didn't want you to take her how you want, she would have stopped you before it got this far, believe that. As always keep your heads up and keep improving lads. Make your life about yourself, and the rest will most likely fall into place.

pellibr · 2015-05-19T23:47:43+00:00

Treat a lady like a prostitute and a prostitute like a lady.

Ikari_Shinji_kun_01 · 2015-05-20T03:24:45+00:00

This is true for every woman I've been with.

skoobled · 2015-05-19T12:55:39+00:00

I would argue that in our biological past sexual choice was a misnomer for most women - the alpha of the tribe had exclusive access to all the females, all other males kept at bay. Ergo the fact that a male had access to a female was evidence of his mating suitability, ergo his mere ability to get close to her, ergo some conscious choice in her part is moot

Likewise, unless the very top alpha, all other males mate on the rare (possibly dangerous) chances they had. Both these things considered it's laughable to assume that "soft and gentle" male love making had any role whatsoever in our biological history. Sexual choice is also an extremely recent concept

damnnonames · 2015-05-19T16:52:25+00:00

Really?

This is anecdotal. And from the huffington post.

There are different types of girls. Some love the slow caressing and intimate touching while others LOVE more aggressive methods.

It depends on the girl, I don't understand why this column suddenly makes you realize all girls want this.

Rougepellet · 2015-05-20T00:48:44+00:00

Even if the women were not saying it explicitly, with basic observation and analysis you would realize this. I mean the fact that 50 shades of grey was so popular among women, even though girls have told me the guy is later revealed to be a complete ass and very abusive says a lot.

moose_war · 2015-05-20T05:19:12+00:00

Loving these two parts:

(Shannon here: this language might offend the feminists in many of us. But I agree with the spirit of the note.)

Hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster

In the last quote I particularly appreciate that the author has made a distinction between what women like in bed versus what they prefer in real life.

Uh is "in bed" not real life? Is sex not real life? "We want men who will dominate us in bed but not in real life!" Yeah sure, which is why so many women tell me they love tall guys and strong guys because they want to feel "protected". That's why they love guys who make all the decisions for them. That's why even if they have a good job, they want to date a man who makes more money then them.

It's stupid mixed bullshit like this that confuses the unaware men out there. Like "be yourself".

moose_war · 2015-05-20T05:23:26+00:00

By the way, is this a big secret? You'll have to excuse me, I don't actually discuss the details of my bros' sex life. it rarely goes beyond "I fucked that chick I met" or "I accidentally did anal with her while drunk". Do most men not act aggressively naturally in bed? I mean, if a girl is naked and wanting to fuck you, why wouldn't you get rough and aggressive and into it? What are guys like the columnist's husband doing during sex? I don't really understand. Any time I have acted rough or talked dirty to a girl that I ALREADY KNEW wanted to fuck, she was very very happy.

rantan1618 · 2015-05-20T06:05:10+00:00

It's funny the author adds this part...

"In the last quote I particularly appreciate that the author has made a distinction between what women like in bed versus what they prefer in real life. "

As if they aren't the same damn thing.

Title	HuffPost reveals the truth: Women want to be treated like prostitutes in bed.
Author	destructor9
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Date	May 19, 2015 11:30 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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