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FR: THANKS!!!!

by AdditionalPie3 | May 22, 2019 | askMRP

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Stats: 35yo, 6’3”, 195lbs, BF 16% (NAVY), (SL5x5 week 4 WAF). I WAS Married 12ys (together 16). 3yr old kid.

Reading List: Finished NMMNG and MMSLP, currently reading WISNIFG.

Found this site a month ago. Been in a shitty place for a longgg time (check post history if needed). This place made sense. Today I found out my wife is still banging chad from work because of the techniques I learned from this site (Sony VOR in her car). I made an appointment with a divorce lawyer. You guys did not save a marriage but did save the man!!


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Title FR: THANKS!!!!
Author AdditionalPie3
Upvotes 34
Comments 21
Date 22 May 2019 04:42 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/239239
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/brr1k3/fr_thanks/
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[–]justpickanyusernameRed Beret41 points42 points  (5 children) | Copy

We didn’t save anything and you have accomplished nothing. All you have realized, finally, is that your wife is a cheating whore.

I don’t see anything in your post or history that indicates YOU have changed.

See you in 1-3 years when your next wife or LTR is cheating on you. Or, put in the work, change yourself, and become a better man.

Glad you are at least moving on.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yes good call.

Just because he verified a woman’s hypergamous nature first hand, doesn’t mean jack shit what he will do with this information. All fucking talk.

If he didn’t start lifting yesterday he’s still a fag.

[–]hack3geRed Beret6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Even if he did start lifting he will still be a faggot for at least 6-9 months.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If we send him to 4chan/fit he will drink his own semen so that nobody steals his gains, he will be a GigaFaggot, and also still autistic.

[–]egc61 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I thought maybe you were just being harsh. Checked his post history. Has actually done nothing. RP aware for just over 30 days. Claiming the sub "saved" him...

[–]justpickanyusernameRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I can’t speak for everyone here, but I think we usually are not harsh. We are just honest.

[–]hystericalbonding7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Glad you decided not to handcuff yourself for misguided religious principles. Don't let people manipulate you into changing your mind. WISNIFG will help.

After WISNIFG, The Manipulated Man should be an entertaining one for you. Then I'd move on to Pook and the PUA world before considering the possibility of another LTR.

Your wife's infidelity buys you a religious exemption. Fuck 10 women - single, married, doesn't matter. Get a feel for AWALT.

Keep owning your shit. The questions at the bottom of your OYS posts are unusual, lazy, but are leading to actionable advice. You're an odd dude, but I think you're in the right place and on the right track.

[–]HerukaArisen15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not a nice thing to find out, but surely better knowing than not. Stay strong and keep your cards to yourself. Don't tell your wife you know. A moment of releasing frustration is not worth losing a good position in the battle.

[–]helaughsinhidden5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

If this is what it takes to finally take her off the pedestal, good for you! I see you've finally got your lazy ass to a gym too.

Let me ask....did you already confront her with the evidence? Make an announcement that the marriage is over? Did you move out of the family home? Plan out your next steps carefully and don't rush anything by being emotionally reactive. Be methodical, be intentional, be calculating, be resolute. I hate to say this, but you should send some of that kids spit to 23 and Me.

AND FFS, READ THESE BOOKS ROOKIE.

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

Still banging?

Had to get that evidence eh.

Well its over and at least you know. Next time, dont make it a "still banging" situation. Eject her the first time you have reason to believe shes cheating because your gut is telling you the truth.

Read the rationale male you God dam faggot!

[–]hack3geRed Beret9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I'm with you on this one - I told him in his OYS the only respectable thing to do when a woman admits to fucking someone else is to help her pack her bags. Honestly its a gift if they admit it - the worst ones will lie, gaslight and leave you to wonder without any real evidence.

[–]into_being3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good! Nuke that shit! I should have when I discovered.

I'm in the same boat now. Don't talk or DEER or entertain her hamster. You still have a way ahead of you.

Burn that shit to the ground while you have the wherewithal, and use the anger to motivate you to continue pursuing your own awesomeness - not revenge.

Otherwise you'll be right back here in a few months or years with the stakes even higher.

[–]FoxShitNasty832 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Vet the next one properly and for fuck sake don't rush into an LTR. You got this.... burn it down to ashes (when ready)

[–]onionknightofknee5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

Read your history. Wtf u keep blaming yourself. Porn as an excuse for an affair, get that bullshit out of here, stop any therapy that isn't calling this out.

Your wife turned in to a bad egg, not your fault. You don't need to be perfect in order to be a good husband. Don't let people abuse you and convince you to blame yourself.

Hard truth is your wife doesn't love you any more. She's a trash person anyway so fuk her and find someone better. Start going on dates.

The fact you clinging on to her makes her respect you less.

Your main goal is how to divorce properly, start researching that. One of the things is how to fire your wife.

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I don't know how men can possibly tolerate a sex denying woman who claims that porn is "cheating." I would go full John Snow on the dragon lady who tried that on me!

[–]SeamusAwl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. No woman can deny a man sex. She can refuse, but the man will just get laid elsewhere. I tolerated that bullshit for 10 years. I unfucked myself 2.5 years ago. 10 years too late.

[–]BluBlac590 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Men First. Women and marriage second and third.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Congrats on being the lower branch.

Don't do something dumb like call off the divorce if she shows you some affection. She's your ex now, so don't go rooting through garbage:

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/

[–]RedPillCoach0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations! You don't know it right now but your life just took a turn for the better!



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