FR: THANKS!!!!

justpickanyusername · 2019-05-22T16:54:27+00:00

We didn’t save anything and you have accomplished nothing. All you have realized, finally, is that your wife is a cheating whore.

I don’t see anything in your post or history that indicates YOU have changed.

See you in 1-3 years when your next wife or LTR is cheating on you. Or, put in the work, change yourself, and become a better man.

Glad you are at least moving on.

hystericalbonding · 2019-05-22T17:27:34+00:00

Glad you decided not to handcuff yourself for misguided religious principles. Don't let people manipulate you into changing your mind. WISNIFG will help.

After WISNIFG, The Manipulated Man should be an entertaining one for you. Then I'd move on to Pook and the PUA world before considering the possibility of another LTR.

Your wife's infidelity buys you a religious exemption. Fuck 10 women - single, married, doesn't matter. Get a feel for AWALT.

Keep owning your shit. The questions at the bottom of your OYS posts are unusual, lazy, but are leading to actionable advice. You're an odd dude, but I think you're in the right place and on the right track.

HerukaArisen · 2019-05-22T16:49:00+00:00

Not a nice thing to find out, but surely better knowing than not. Stay strong and keep your cards to yourself. Don't tell your wife you know. A moment of releasing frustration is not worth losing a good position in the battle.

helaughsinhidden · 2019-05-22T23:04:12+00:00

If this is what it takes to finally take her off the pedestal, good for you! I see you've finally got your lazy ass to a gym too.

Let me ask....did you already confront her with the evidence? Make an announcement that the marriage is over? Did you move out of the family home? Plan out your next steps carefully and don't rush anything by being emotionally reactive. Be methodical, be intentional, be calculating, be resolute. I hate to say this, but you should send some of that kids spit to 23 and Me.

AND FFS, READ THESE BOOKS ROOKIE.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-05-22T17:29:56+00:00

Still banging?

Had to get that evidence eh.

Well its over and at least you know. Next time, dont make it a "still banging" situation. Eject her the first time you have reason to believe shes cheating because your gut is telling you the truth.

Read the rationale male you God dam faggot!

into_being · 2019-05-22T23:10:50+00:00

Good! Nuke that shit! I should have when I discovered.

I'm in the same boat now. Don't talk or DEER or entertain her hamster. You still have a way ahead of you.

Burn that shit to the ground while you have the wherewithal, and use the anger to motivate you to continue pursuing your own awesomeness - not revenge.

Otherwise you'll be right back here in a few months or years with the stakes even higher.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2019-05-22T17:24:04+00:00

Vet the next one properly and for fuck sake don't rush into an LTR. You got this.... burn it down to ashes (when ready)

onionknightofknee · 2019-05-22T18:15:15+00:00

Read your history. Wtf u keep blaming yourself. Porn as an excuse for an affair, get that bullshit out of here, stop any therapy that isn't calling this out.

Your wife turned in to a bad egg, not your fault. You don't need to be perfect in order to be a good husband. Don't let people abuse you and convince you to blame yourself.

Hard truth is your wife doesn't love you any more. She's a trash person anyway so fuk her and find someone better. Start going on dates.

The fact you clinging on to her makes her respect you less.

Your main goal is how to divorce properly, start researching that. One of the things is how to fire your wife.

BluBlac59 · 2019-05-23T02:59:30+00:00

Men First. Women and marriage second and third.

[deleted] · 2019-05-23T14:22:07+00:00

Congrats on being the lower branch.

Don't do something dumb like call off the divorce if she shows you some affection. She's your ex now, so don't go rooting through garbage:

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/

RedPillCoach · 2019-05-23T15:53:48+00:00

Congratulations! You don't know it right now but your life just took a turn for the better!

red-sfpplus · 2019-05-22T16:58:18+00:00

Fuck you.

Title	FR: THANKS!!!!
Author	AdditionalPie3
Upvotes	34
Comments	21
Date	May 22, 2019 4:42 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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