Had a girl over at my place on the 3rd meetup. Went for the makeout but she stopped me at undressing her. I told her I don't believe in withholding sex as some sort of proving ground and that sex is something people who like each other do. No response. I asked her to leave and delete my number on her way out.

How do you guys feel about that? I sometimes swing back and forth between too nice / too mean. Replaying this in my mind I didn't like how she also denied sex on the 2nd date and a sort of gatekeeping role on her side was building up, I think that's why I ended things. If you guys would have done differently I'd like to hear what you would have done.