Question for red pill women: What do you do if your captain fails you?

Littleknownfacts · 2017-11-20T01:23:53+00:00

I'd like you to read this post I made for /r/redpillwives based off of a comment made by /u/wingnut, RPW only works when you have a good man. All of these difficulties can and do happen in marriage. Some are a result of poor leadership and others are calculated risks that happen to end in failure. It's up to the individual woman to decide where her line is and how much of either bad behavior she can stand. IF she decides to stay, and that is her flex of power, to make that most important decision... RPW can give her the support to make the best of her relationship even through difficult times. In other words, by the time she has reached out to RPW, she and she alone has decided the relationship is more important than whatever he did.

LifterofThings · 2017-11-19T23:33:44+00:00

These "I will prove that RPW are either stupid or full of shit by making them admit that they'll endure abuse or that they'd leave under sufficiently awful circumstances" threads went out of style a long time ago. Please let them RIP.

tempuserthrowaway5 · 2017-11-20T11:34:15+00:00

I have limits to what behavior I accept from anyone in my life. If anyone crossed those limits they're out, and that ESPECIALLY applies to my "captain" since he has a say in most things I do. Anyone who abuses that power should not have it.

darla10 · 2017-11-20T17:00:42+00:00

I hate the term captain. I picture some tiny man with a wooden leg and a parrot. My man doesn't fail me. Sometimes he fails himself and I try to cheer him up. I know my boundaries so I'm not worried about him 'failing me'. Boundaries are there for me, not him.

fetchyminx · 2017-11-20T10:06:58+00:00

Please stop using the word captain.

Willow-girl · 2017-11-22T13:35:51+00:00

How I would react to a major life mistake would depend on his response to the situation. Remorse and an attempt to rectify? Yeah, I'd probably stick around. BTW, this cuts both ways -- if I screwed up royally, I'd expect him to reevaluate, too. Love is never entirely unconditional.

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Title	Question for red pill women: What do you do if your captain fails you?
Author	tempuserthrowaway5
Upvotes	6
Comments	61
Date	November 19, 2017 10:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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