Non-incels will often say that incels need to "lower their standards", while the incels will counter that even unattractive women reject them. But all the talk of "leagues" and "standards" make it seem as though dating is just some game where you get two people who find each other attractive enough and then boom, that's it, you're done! A 1/10 girl should be ecstatic to date a 3/10 guy, just because he's at a higher percentile rating for conventional attractiveness. If she doesn't, the only possible reason is that she's holding out for a better looking guy.

So that being said, what do you have to offer? What makes you enjoyable to be around? How would someone be better off dating you?