This past Sunday, I finally banged a girl who I'd known for about three years now (met during a previous LTR). Post-LTR, there had been previous attempts as I had tried to escalate, but she would always shoot me down. At first I let them get to me, but as I started to dig deeper into a TRP mindset, I just blew it off and went on my way. Made an effort to keep phone contact to a minimum (to avoid orbiting), and when she commented that we never hung out anymore, I let slip I was seeing other women (one in particular, but details, details).

After that exchange, her interest perked up drastically. She began initiating text conversations, she began pursuing more information about the girl I was seeing (name, how it was going, et cetera). Previously, I had to set up social interaction. Suddenly, she wanted to hang out with me.

Anyways, we finally hang out, hit a couple bars, have a few drinks. Every so often she asks me about the other girl. I shrug, sip my drink. She gets testy: "You're really not going to even tell me her name?" Shrug, sip my drink.

End of the night, we're watching The Newsroom on my couch. She drapes her legs across my laps, I just lay my hands on her knees and chill. 20 minutes later, she's grabs my hand and pulls it up so I can finger her, and after 5 minutes of fingering, she says, "We need to go upstairs right now."

We bang. In the morning, we bang again. I make coffee, and we're both sitting naked. She asks me about the other girl again. I shrug, sip my coffee, and say nothing.

TL;DR Girl I had previously coveted gets aggressive and makes move on me after realizing I'm banging another woman. Finally get the f-close.