Don't stop.

You approach women now? Good, don't stop.

You see success and have had a taste. Good, don't stop.

Whatever you do don't stop.

You start rationalizing that if you worked out and lifted you could gain attraction and wouldn't need game. Don't.

Lift but don't stop approaching. Don't use gaining SMV as an excuse to not approach.

Just don't.

I fell into that trap, when I first moved to Montreal I was on fire. I approached everyone and hit on many girls. My flirting was getting really good and I was quite confident in my day game skills. I started to develop a routine.

Open, touch hand with high five. Tell a little about self and learn about them. Punch arm and joke around. Close.

It was simple but it was really effective. Most girls I approached I met for dates later.

Then once I got settled I started to justify not approaching. I would say

"It doesn't matter if I approach, I don't look like that guy over there. She's not interested I'll save my breath."

So I walked away. The next girl I walked away from too. And the next. And the next.

What happened?

Well I didn't get my dick wet.

Today I decided I was tired of not approaching and this whole monk mode bullshit wasn't doing anything. I'm going to approach whether I want to or not.

My first approach was this cute girl at a desk in a mall. The open went great but after that I had NOTHING. I literally was so boring she started to close her eyes while talking too me. Jesus christ.

I told her

"Let's grab a drink next week, what's your number?"

She said

"I'm kind of sort of seeing a person right now."

I respond with

"I'm not jealous and I'm better looking than that guy anyway."

She said

"Not going to happen."

And I left. I felt shitty not because of the rejection but because just how bad my game had gotten since the summer.

I was actually shocked that my game was as bad as it was. It made me want to throw up.

I said to myself.

"Fuck approaching, I'm going back to monk mode then I will attract girls."

That shit flew for about an hour until I saw a cute girl sitting in the Mc Donalds I was at and thought to myself.

"Fuck that, I can lift/eat better/take on hobbies and still approach. The reason I don't want to approach is because I think my game is already tight when right now it's not and by not approaching my ego is saved and I don't have to see the truth that right NOW my game is shit. A baby has better game than I have. They get to suck on tits."

With this thought still fresh in my mind I walked up to her and said

"You look extremely bored for someone on NYE."

We talked. My game was still shit but I'm pretty sure she was attracted. Sadly she lives nine hours away and was waiting for her bus. Got her Facebook.

I'm going out now to a NYE party and approach some cute girls. My game will probably be shit but whatever. The only way I am going to get good again is by practice.

I approached two girls this evening and I WON'T stop.

I can rationalize this all I want but I WON'T stop.

My ego wants to believe that I have game when right NOW I don't. I still won't stop.

Don't stop.

Just

Fucking

Don't.