Red Pill Women aged 40 and/or above, what words of wisdom can you give women in their 20’s?

StepfordInTexas · 2018-02-14T21:45:04+00:00

Your mere existence is not enough to sustain any relationship.

Self improvement is a journey with no end.

Obligatory disclaimer: I’m 30 something not 40 something

p3n3lop3 · 2018-02-14T23:51:12+00:00

38 not 40. Realise this decade is where you shape yourself. Don't let job losses or broken hearts shape your world view. Alot of women say the best time to be alive is when your older but TBH that's just wall based nonsense the best time to be alive is when you work hard on yourself and reap the rewards of your labor. Simply showing up and being pretty is easy to do when in your 20s but realise if you want an amazing life both love and otherwise it'll take work.

su-quita · 2018-02-15T02:53:33+00:00

Get in a workout routine now when you're young and your body is more elastic. Your metabolism will slow down. You will gain weight with pregnancies.

Better to stay in shape with good habits rather than succumb to crazy expensive diets that really don't work (and make you a crazy grumpy old lady).

Maybe I'm petty, but I'm just a happier wife and mama when my clothes fit.

husheveryone · 2018-02-15T16:14:18+00:00

41 and I love love love Alpha men who are intelligent and very sexual. Date with dignity and weed out the beta time-wasters who message constantly but put nothing on the calendar with you. If he’s not running game on you, Next. If you don’t feel any chemistry within a few hours of first meeting, politely next him. You’ll be doing both of you a favor, because you have to have to feel the stirrings of a visceral lust for him at the outset or you will never fall in deeply enough in love with him to sustain a RP LTR or marriage with him. Don’t sleep around, wait until you’ve been dating a few months and have met his people. Don’t go back to his place or have him over to yours, that is, unless you are trying to tell him you plan to fuck him that night. The goal is to have no more than 7 lifetime PIV sex partners, preferably 2 or 3 excellent and fun ones who don’t give you any diseases. Don’t get married before 25, and not until you have all of your education, and have traveled abroad at least twice. Wait until you are at least 29-34 to start trying to have kids, and until you have been married for at least a year — bonus points if he is a childfree, never-married RP man of honor who was raised by a loving, sane, devoted woman, and who has no history of any infidelity, substance abuse, or criminality. You want to be his first wife, and you always need a lawyer-drafted prenup, with each of you having your own lawyers. Don’t ever live together before marriage. Get a full life, with amazing hobbies, travel, and friends who have your back & will call you out on your bullshit. Find the humor in things if it kills you. Stop orbiting, stop putting everything you do on social media. Let him pursue you, always. Be mysterious. Be fun. Be impossible to offend, because nothing is ever personal. If women don’t use it they lose it, so figure out how to make yourself come, and try to masturbate everyday and so you’ll be an enthusiastic and interactive bedmate for your eventual Alpha man. Be easy to live with. Be charming. Wear your hair long, whiten your teeth, smile, laugh, enjoy your one precious life!!

tizz17 · 2018-02-15T04:08:11+00:00

I don't know why people make 40 looks like 90 years old. Im 40 and I feel better than ever, I'm doing a MBA and have my own practice and I'm actually considering moving out of my country, so girls life doesn't end at 29 but you really have to start early to take care of your skin and your finances. And men don't change. Never.

Kiddingyoself · 2018-02-17T04:04:03+00:00

If you know what you want, set goals for yourself, and don't squander time, and energy, you're in a fantastic position to make it happen.

Also, no one owes you anything.

Edit - Two more things. Part of not wasting time and energy is understanding the importance of IQ, that it is genetic, and that there is no greater indicator for success in life than IQ. Also, that these facts are relevant.

Kiddingyoself · 2018-02-17T04:25:30+00:00

People are attracted to health. This includes psychological health, obviously. If you're ≤25yo, most of your health is taken care of for you. After this period, you are responsible for cultivating your health. It's not prohibitively difficult, but it takes focus, and effort. If you adopt a healthy lifestyle when you're young, it'll be of great benefit. It's much easier to maintain good health than it is to recover from neglect in bad health.

If you're younger than approx 28yo, you have no idea how much you've been coasting on your hormones work. You're about to find out.

blitzer555 · 2018-02-14T21:34:26+00:00

at 40 daddyhusband is gone and ur hooked on xanax

lol good luck rpw

Title	Red Pill Women aged 40 and/or above, what words of wisdom can you give women in their 20’s?
Author	lovelyllamas
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Date	February 14, 2018 8:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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