Q4 everyone: Why would a young man come to TRP if he's not bothered too much about sex? (As in, sex is a magical elusive abstract)

TheGreasyPole · 2015-09-23T09:51:33+00:00

RIGHT,

Xemnas, we need a chat here.

You're an introvert that is digging himself deeper and deeper into an introverted/neurotic hole.

I don't know whats going ~spoing~ in your head, but we can all agree something has. It also appears to be feeding off itself in a kind of downward spiral. The internet in general, and RP material in particular, is not helping arrest this downward spiral.

You've read enough now. It's "in there". I don't think any more reading is going to help you for a good long while. You now need to take action.

I think that doing so will massively help your integration of RP knowledge... Which at the moment is all mouth, no trousers (and seriously, a lot of your posts and comments suck because of this)... And it might even help you with your mental issues.

I'm a firm believer that brains usually respond quite appropriately to the environment their body creates. You're almost certainly anxious, because you brain feels you have reason to be, and this is the top of the spiral.

Cut it off. Create situations where your body doesn't feel the need to make you so fucking anxious all the time. Thats going to start with lifting.

Just the exercise itself will help, the sense of mission and accomplishment will help, the testosterone will help, and as you get bigger.... You body will also feel less need to pump you full of anxiety. Big dominant guys don't get so anxious, because their bodies know they are bigger and more dominant than the other guys.... Their bodies stop sending their brain "We should be anxious, make our meatbag anxious" signals.

It's a feedback loop, but a positive one. And you desperately need a positive feedback loop.

So... Despite the lack of sexual interest in you.... RP really can still help.

But ONLY if you GO DO THE SHIT RP TELLS YOU TO GO DO. Just reading our stuff is NEVER enough, for ANYONE. But especially for you.

You have to start doing stuff, start feeding positive feedback loops, start giving your body reason to make you feel more confident by giving it real world changes it can start to feel confident about. I doubt people the size of GLO frequently get stuck in anxiety loops, because bodies the size of GLO' are pumping their brains full of "What the fuck do we need to be anxious about ? I can crush every male in a 2 mile radius." signals.

You've got to break this loop. Reading RP will not help you. DOING RP might.

You've got to start doing stuff Xemnas. Actualling DOING THINGS out in the real world. Actually building the man you want to be, not just reading about building him. Actually lifting. Actually grooming and dressing better. Actually talking to girls (even if it's only the odd off-hand remark to the cashier). Actually making the improvements TRP has been telling you to make for MONTHS now, to no avail.

Make a list of things to do this week. Put a half dozen simple things on it. Make sure you do those things and put a big happy tick next to them when they are done. Then make your next list.

But you have to start taking action now Xemnas. The "read shit on the internet" phase is done for you. You will get no further benefit from it, it will probably make things worse.

For the love of god, yourself, and for the sake of future you start actually doing stuff and making a difference in your own life. The more you do this.... The more Future You + 1 year and Future You + 2 years will thank you for this decision today.

PLEASE tell me you've already got your gym membership sorted out.

If you haven't, I will come to your house and personally shit on your doorstep. I'm in the UK. I could find you if I wanted.

If you do nothing else this week start lifting, do it at least 3 times a week (as you're unemployed you can go straight to a 5 day a week programme) and I guarantee you WILL feel better about yourself 2-3-4-5-6 weeks down the road. Physical exercise does that.

You will only find that out if you fucking do it. I'm pleading with you here. I'm demanding it of you here. For the love of god do something except chatting shit on the internet with us.

We're rooting for you. But we can't do it for you.

You can build a man who is respected.

You just can't do it by reading shit on the internet and whining about it only by actually going and doing stuff.

TBH, If I was a PPD/TRP/MRP/aTRP mod I'd ban you from all of those subs until I saw a photocopy of a gym membership card and a photo of you looking grumpy with a pair of dumbells in your hands.

The time for reading shit on the internet is done.

For yourself, please, go start improving your life off the internet.

Go take action.

We can't do it for you.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-09-23T01:27:08+00:00

I think you need to get off reddit and go find yourself a Dr. Get a full physical and mental health assessment. You need help, and you are not going to get it here.

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-23T11:23:12+00:00

You need to calm the fuck down. Go to your doctor and ask for medication. Benzos pregabalin or even buttfucking SSRIs you just need to be on something to get your head straight. I am speaking from personal experience trust me.

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2015-09-23T03:41:52+00:00

Here is the big issue with you and women

You talk too much and you expect people you don't know to care about your feelings.

winndixie · 2015-09-23T04:06:24+00:00

What

belletaco · 2015-09-23T14:18:43+00:00

You jerk off to Pinterest? How?

alreadyredschool · 2015-09-23T00:23:18+00:00

How can someone bring up the motivation to hunt when he is already satisfied? Seriously stop using masturbation as an outlet for your sexual desires and the thirst will come back.

betterdeadthanbeta · 2015-09-23T00:53:18+00:00

Get your testosterone checked.

bonerdude420 · 2015-09-23T00:55:56+00:00

You are right, and in the same boat as many on trp. It's about building self esteem and social power more than sex. Otherwise trp theory would focus around getting value for money with sex workers

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-23T04:12:33+00:00

I'm kinda disappointed that you say you think I don't respect you . When did I show you disrespect? Surely , I'm sarcastic sometimes because this is my character but when was I ever disrespectful to you.

17b29a · 2015-09-23T00:50:54+00:00

perhaps it's an indicator of some kind of mental illness...? crazy idea, i know

[deleted] · 2015-09-23T03:37:03+00:00

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COPCO2 · 2015-09-23T17:14:10+00:00

I think TRP appeals to anyone with who struggles with what it means to be a man. You fall into this category, saying that being taken care of is humiliating. That has nothing to do with sex, and everything to do with your life not lining up with traditional ideas of masculinity.

Let's face it; straight male identity has changed a lot, and the traditional role models are very unfashionable. If you take a stereotypical man from the 1950s, for example, he might be a smoking, racist, sexist, even though he was a completely acceptable portrayal of a man at that time. IMO, that type of role model hasn't been adequately replaced with something that fits our current society. The focus instead has been on identity politics, and sraight males are left trying to adapt to societal shifts that don't seem to include them.

I completely understand the problem that TRP is trying to solve, and that problem is much deeper than pure sexual strategy. Our society has an identity crisis when it comes to what a straight male should be, and it leaves so many young men without a sense of direction.

However, I think the solution that TRP proposes is ridiculous and not at all a sustainable self-identity in our society. I don't think today's man will do well in society by doubling down on sexism and trying to bed as many women as possible. That's a shallow identity that lacks substance and is ultimately self-destructive. It will prevent trust and respect in romantic relationships, and ultimately make men feel even worse.

Edit: Somehow typed feminist when I meant sexist.

downunderit · 2015-09-23T01:49:50+00:00

This about it if red pill men were respected why are they so secretive about who they are?

Xemnas81 · 2015-09-23T00:26:36+00:00

Sex relations between man and his women is the thread tying together all human purposes, regardless of whether you are having any.

redmachines · 2015-09-23T01:03:05+00:00

I fully understand your problem OP. If you want respect, you need to be attractive. Women do not respect sub 8 males. I believe that women think about sex all the time and thus interacting with subhumans makes her disgusted. They will not acknowledge you in any way unless you pass their physical benchmark. My suggestions is to start grooming, clear any facial deformities with skin care products, brush your teeth more often, and if you are fat, exercise (lifting isn't necessary).

[deleted] · 2015-09-23T21:10:27+00:00

Women aren't capable of respecting men in the male sense of the word.

Title	Q4 everyone: Why would a young man come to TRP if he's not bothered too much about sex? (As in, sex is a magical elusive abstract)
Author	Xemnas81
Upvotes	5
Comments	118
Date	September 23, 2015 12:18 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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