I will try to demonstrate most of us have a problem with RP lingo, not RP advice. In the first example, I will demonstrate that very NON-RP advice can be given in RP lingo, hence, your defining property is lingo, not advice. In the second, I will show you could give RP advice without hating women.

NON-RP advice (Be A Submissive Nice Guy) put in RP lingo (offensive)

"Man, you must admit, the fucking feminists have won. You got no chance anymore. It is their game now. So put a fucking expensive diamond ring on a landwhale, kiss her ass, be a good hubby, jump to her commands, buy her expensive presents, take out a life insurance on you so that she can continue to eat donuts on the couch when you work yourself to death, and get a lousy handjob once a month. What else can you do? They won. Men are the new slaves. Obey your masters. This is just accepting reality. Come on, it is not too bad. You can get fat, she is fat too, you will have some spare time from work and her orders to play videogames and fantasize about being that hero."

RP advice (Game) put in NON-RP lingo (not offensive, not demeaning women)

"Men tend to start thinking around 15-17 years old that it is time to find a girlfriend, or at least have sex. Many of them commits a big mistake. They put on the role of the Chivalrous Overly Respectful Old Fashioned Gentleman.

They keep it on until 25-30 when they learn better. Why is it wrong?

First of all, giving generic human respect to women is good. But human respect is not the same as gentlemanly chivalrous respect. As in, respecting womens boundaries and autonomy is good. Respecting educated womens intelligence, professional achievements, informed opinions is also good, EXCEPT in sexual situations.

  1. We don't live in such a classy age. We live in an age where when guys pass out drunk at parties people think farting in their face is funny. You are really being anachronistic here.

  2. You are too young for that. Wait with the gentleman shit until you are 50 and can tie a Windsor in your sleep.

  3. Chivalry was meant to mitigate a power distance between highly powerful feudal nobles and their girls. Sure, today, you can be a member of a privileged, powerful class. But as a young college student, how much power you have as an individual? None at all. So you have not much to mitigate here. Mitigating group or class power is not relevant to 1:1 sexual encounters. You are both individuals there.

  4. Respect is a weird thing. You of course always respect a womans autonomy and boundaries. At work, your respect her intelligence and professional achievements. If a scientist woman proposes an experiment at work, you listen, not ignore nor make fun of her. But sexual situations work with different rules. When you are in a bar trying to charm a scientist woman in bed, it is not a good time respect her intelligence and professional virtue. You can be naughty. She can talk about a dead serious experiment and you can just say well I guess some people just enjoy torturing lab rats and give a big shit eating grin. This actually works. This is NOT how you GENERALLY treat women. Generally you treat their intelligence and achievements and education with respect. At work, at school etc. But when it is a sexual situation in bar... then not. It is a different place with different rules. Here, you can and should mock all the serious things they do... and be good natured when they do the same. Sex is a comedy, not a serious thing. Everything serious deserves mocking before sex. But keep this behavior to the sexual encounter in the bar. At work, be professional, respect women, respect their IQ, respect their achievements and educated opinion. It is two different rulesets for two different situations.

4/B) Sex is naughty. It is how it works. Even if you are a full on aristocrat wearing smoking at the governors ball in 1930, if you want to cuckold the governor, you got to talk a bit naughty and not that gentlemanly to his wife. Look up how Daario Nahaaris charmed Daenerys.

  1. Most of the gentleman chivalrous stuff is about feeling ashamed about your own sexuality. You feel your penis is not worthy to touch her, you must prove your worth first perhaps and then accept the divine grace of sex with the goddess. But the thing is, women like to be desired. You really need not feel shame here. This is why you are allowed, and required to be naughty. The problem is that the gentleman ethos says you want a relationship first and sex later. Really, even if you don't want sex much, you should try to learn to want sex. Adopt that sex-wanting naughty, unserious, mocking attitude, making fun of everything and taking nothing about her or you seriously, and the relationship will come afterward. I know it is hard. It is hard for me too. But women generally desire to be desired far more than they desire to be loved. It does not make them bad or cruel or bitches. It is simply their choice as autonomous human beings, to desire to be desired. Respect that. Which means, in a desire-driven situation, actually don't be too respectful in the wrong way: respect the boundaries, but don't take her seriously and yourself neither.

  2. While you do all this, be aware that she is not a slut. Having sex with random guys who wear condom is the same thing as using a rubber dildo. It does not make her filthy or damaged goods. It is perfectly reasonable and mature choice for her to fuck you or others. Be grateful, don't despise girls who can be gamed. Sex is good. You enjoy it. Girls who have a lot of sex with guys are really nice people who make a lot of people happy."

Are you getting the point now? RP is a mood, not advice. It is an aggressive, competitive, demeaning mood. I can give NON-RP advice in RP language or RP-advice in NON-RP language.

So my examples really suggest something here, I hope.