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Since people are becoming fattys. How do you think this will affect the dating market?

topredhat

June 13, 2015
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Title Since people are becoming fattys. How do you think this will affect the dating market?
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Date June 13, 2015 12:58 AM UTC
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"becoming fatties"

around 2/3 of the population is either overweight or obese, in places like the UK or the US. probably a higher % of obese in the US

[–]_Benny_Lava9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It will cost more to take a girl out for dinner.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. An in-shape girl is going to have even more bargaining power due to increased demand for her.

But a fatty would be salivating for a $9.95 All You Can Eat buffet dinner date.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Honestly the number one thing I look for in a womans these days is that she is either thin, keeps in shape or is trying to get in shape.

[–]ProtoPillRed Before Red3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love those low standards, Naz.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Raise those standards too high and you wont find anyone these days. With the country being 2/3 rds over weight, its actually a higher standard than you would think.

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

So if she is thin and horribly unhealthy, it's ok?

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

As america has proven, its easy to put on weight but hard to take it off. So if I had to have an unhealthy partner, starting thin makes my job easier because its HEALTHY AT ANY SIZE, amirite?

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So you're cool with someone on meth or diet pills or totally lazy or eating disordered as long as she is thin? How much do you really know about health at any size? Are you aware that many people lose weight permanently when they join haes? That when the focus is on health, not losing weight, their quality of life greatly improves?

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I cant tell when the HAES movement started but according to facts, obesity has grown more and more each year. If HAES was actually doing a good thing, they would slow or stop this, amirite?

http://media.mercola.com/assets/images/obese.gif

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you think haes is contributing to obesity? I thought you were about self improvement. Haes is about making healthy choices and one of those is ending the drastic diets that are doing more harm than good.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'd take an anorexic bitch over an obese one.

Bulking from Auschwitz mode > cutting, then bulking

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I used to be anorexic. That is a very indelicate thing to say.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh shit, Pao is coming for my ass.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fingers crossed she smacks it.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

For women, the choices will shrink, and a virtual polygamy may result. There is never going to be (read on) any social pressure on them to accept fat men.

For men, social campaigns to somehow not ignore fat women (through shaming of those that do) will trick some men into getting involved with fat women. The rest may become white knights permanently in the friend zone, MGTOWs, red pill, old blue pill denialists living alone, etc.

[–]Kill_Your_Ego8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (30 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately it appears that the obesity epidemic is having massive external effects. No one, no man or woman, finds a fatty attractive. Period. Not physically so. And this is biological so it's not going to change.

I don't care about dating men, and fat men are usually pathetic white knight mangina faggots so they can go diet, but with so many fat women around there's nobody to marry and have kids with. It's so fucking pathetic as well as these stupid fat cows really are honestly confused about why good men won't date them. The filthy emotional abuse the feminist body positive bullies are inflicting with their movement is harming these dumb planetoids.

I hate it when a fat woman tries to flirt with me. Sure I'll chat with you about whatever but do not ask me if I have a girlfriend. How insulting for you to try to flirt with me you fat lazy woman. You're like an ugly man to me. And even fat men think this way about fat women. It sucks because a woman's value is primarily physical and these fat women are effectively useless. They're lazy, they are undateable, they are unfuckable unless you are really drunk and need a blow job, and just disgusting to look at. I'm not even sure how fat women stand to walk around in public. Don't they know that I want to vomit when I realize that's a woman?

Fat shaming is an important public service. It helps keep women thin and hence marriable. So we can have children and an effective culture. Not this disgusting degeneracy parade where even planets think they're real people.

[–]GayLubeOilTrue Red Pill5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

I agree completely. If you dont have the capacity to feed yourself like a responsible adult you dont deserve respect. The only way to become obese is to eat stupid shit like soda and cookies and completely lack dignity and shame.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you cannot bother to correctly spell the word "obese" before bitching on the Internet, I cannot bother to respect you. Do you guys really think talking this way will inspire others to want to be like you?

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Obease" is actually a word that describes a person so fat, they are a hambeast.

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Obeast" would be more clear. Continue making up your fascinating language.

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

No. If you had an ounce of awareness, you would know that shaming makes fat people fatter. You want people to be fat. Your entire belief system is based on the assumption that there are winners and losers and you are a winner. You are not a special snowflake, and shaming fat people makes you look like a child.

[–]Kill_Your_Ego0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

There are winners and losers. You and all the people like you who were given trophies their entire lives just for showing up are a bunch of pathetic losers. Every time a fatty sees me and my body they are shamed just by my existence. You know you're a loser when you see me. I make you a loser just by existing. Get over it.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You don't get to assume I've just been given trophies all my life, and you don't get to tell me what I would think about you. Odds are, I would see you strutting around like a deluded peacock and think you were an overcompensating douche. You are not special because you work out.

[–]Kill_Your_Ego0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Go away loser.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What an utterly scintillating point. That remark shows great maturity.

[–]topredhatSo Red[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

It's much wores when you see a fat young girl/woman.

[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Even worse are bigots who can't spell.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

It takes 2 seconds to Google a word for its correct spelling.

It takes 1-2 pounds/week to lose fat in a healthy manner, assuming consistent diet and exercise, which requires great effort to get rid of unhealthy habits.

Fat women, especially young women are worse off. Their prime years go down the shitter.

[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

How much time are you spending thinking of and hating fat people?

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Every time a fatty gets in my peripheral vision, I have a quick thought, like "ugh" or "god dayum!".

I don't hate the people, I hate the potential being wasted to live a better life. I fucking hate how my fat family members are dying early of fatty livers and/or diabetes.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

When I hear your comments, I think- God, what a jerk.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Better than wasting precious years of a child's development by oversaturating their diet with carbs and fucking up their insulin response systems.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What would you do if you had a fat daughter? Do you think shaming her into dieting when she is still growing is a good plan?

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I'd kill myself (or at least be dead inside). What a shite parent I would be to let that happen.

Two approaches I would use:

  1. Get them started early on good macros. Absolutely nothing processed and teach them about cooking early. Make em love veggies, nuts, avocados, all the good shit. Also, no big plates in the house. That is what's fucking over my family members, too big portions.

  2. If I adopted a fat daughter, I wouldn't shame her for her looks. I'd expose her to simple explanations of the basic processes of the body, the cause of excess fat, the dangers (with some gross pics of fatty organs), the possible social stigma/issues she can face from society.

Hopefully, this will plant some seeds in her mind the next time she tries to eat fast-food, since only home cooked healthy meals would be allowed in my house.

[–]IramadanceRed Pill Man0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Diabetes "runs" in my family. But when I actually think about, every fucking family member I have that has diabetes is overweight. WHO THE FUCK KNEW? So yes I hate fat people.

I've been shaming my brother who has put on about 100 the past 9 years. Guess what? He's started playing basketball again and is currently working out with me twice a week.

I don't inherently hate fat people, but I don't respect them. How could I respect someone who purposefully destroys their body? One of my friends overdosed on percocet my freshman year in high school. If I had called him out on his bullshit, he may still be alive. So I make sure to do the same to my fat friends and family. Being nice about doesn't achieve any noticeable effects.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Being an asshole is incredibly overrated. People take care of themselves when they feel good about themselves. There have been plenty of studies done. Shaming people does not work.

[–]belletaco-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

they're so embarrassing.

[–]haircombsnightmare8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Fatties not being liked ever is a myth. I have seen more than once a fatty girl with a thin boy, and viceversa. It's not as exaggerated as internet people paint it.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, they're called chubby chasers.

[–]fiat_lux_Red Pillar2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. Of course it exists. That kind of pairing is unusually common in the ghettos IME.

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That is because of the connection between poverty and obesity.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Correlation does not equal causation.

[–]Smilingbluekitties7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (107 children) | Copy Link

It won't, really. There are just as many fat men as women. The not fats will have impossible egos and the fats will try harder. As a side note- why are you guys so obsessed with fat people? It's not normal.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (57 children) | Copy Link

2 main reasons for me

  1. They cost a lot of money in healthcare, and are diminishing innocent children's quality of life through neglectful habits as the parental figure

  2. I don't want to look at fatties.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-4 points-3 points-2 points 11 years ago (56 children) | Copy Link

Do you have any concrete evidence or source regarding the healthcare issue?

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (54 children) | Copy Link

Overweight & Obesity - 2013 Statistical Fact Sheet

Adults

Among Americans age 20 and older,

  • 154.7 million are overweight or obese (BMI of 25.0 kg/m2 and higher):
  • 79.9 million men.
  • 74.8 million women.

Costs

  • The total excess cost related to the current prevalence of adolescent overweight and obesity is estimated to be $254 billion ($208 billion in lost productivity secondary to premature morbidity and mortality and $46 billion in direct medical costs).

  • If current trends in the growth of obesity continue, total healthcare costs attributable to obesity could reach $861 to $957 billion by 2030, which would account for 16% to 18% of US health expenditures.

http://www.heart.org/idc/groups/heart-public/@wcm/@sop/@smd/documents/downloadable/ucm_319588.pdf

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (53 children) | Copy Link

Ok, thanks for the info. How about info for the costs of smoking? Tanning? Drugs? Birth? Skiing accidents? Fat people Pay healthcare too, you know. Also, aren't you 20? How much have you even paid into the system? Finally- fat shaming has been proven to increase obesity. By spewing hatred, you are making fat people fatter.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

I suppose this is smoker shaming, right? I bet the smokers who saw this went out and smoked more. It should be vilified, right?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5fV4jMplP4

God forbid we make these kind of commercials for obesity.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=27&v=_vjhae3IYCc

[–]Smilingbluekitties-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

Shaming doesn't work. It has been proven. If you shame people, you want them to be fat. I think you like fat people. They make you feel superior. If you work hard, I bet you can be less of an asshole.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Actually it does. What doesn't work is that some people are uncomfortable with shaming.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Show me proof.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Chef loses 291 pounds from receiving texts from a friend calling him fatass

Texts like "Fat Fuck!" & "You'll be dead before 40!"

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

Sidestepping the question and personal attack, nice.

BZZZZZZZZZ wrong again. I was part of the reason why the company I work for now has the biggest loser come to work and do healthy eating programs and exercise programs. What else you got?

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Do you think The Biggest Loser is an example of healthy weight loss? Are you serious? Are you aware that the majority of contestants gain the weight back and more?

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Id say that the biggest loser weight loss method is as healthy as overeating. Many people who lose weight, on many different diets, end up gaining it back. This is not unique to TBL.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Not their fault that theyre mentally weak.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Shaming does work. Telling a beached whale that shes pretty doesnt.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Did anyone say telling a fatty that they are pretty when you don't think that is the case is a good idea? Just don't be an asshole and leave them the fuck alone. It's not that hard.

[–]IramadanceRed Pill Man5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Remember that fatass who was shamed for trying to dance? A bunch of fat feminists rallied to his defense and threw him a pity dance party. Guess what? He's still fat as motherfucker. He could've used that shame as motivation but instead he was told it's ok to be 200 pounds overweight.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago* (25 children) | Copy Link

So many logical fallacies in this post its astounding. Here are your facts:

Figure 1 compares the increase in chronic conditions related to obesity. When compared with normal-weight individuals of the same age and sex having similar social demographics, obese people suffer from an increase in chronic conditions of approximately 67 percent. In contrast, the increase for normal-weight daily smokers is only 25 percent; and for normal-weight heavy drinkers, only 12 percent.

http://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB4549.html

Looks like someone already made this argument and it was disproved. What other logical fallacies do you have?

Costs:

Both obesity and smoking were associated with excess costs for health care. Compared to nonsmokers, average health costs were $1,275 higher for smokers.

The incremental costs associated with obesity were even higher: $1,850 more than for normal-weight individuals. For those with morbid obesity, the excess costs were up to $5,500 per year.

https://www.acoem.org/CostsObesityvsSmoking.aspx

[–]Smilingbluekitties-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

If you want to do something, get together and stop the corn and soy subsidies. Shaming doesn't help.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Logical fallacy used:

Red Herring

The real issue is over eating, lets not get it twisted.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

Bullshit. It's the addictive, cheap processed food our goverment is poisoning the poor with.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

BZZZZZZZZZZZZZ wrong again. Calories in and calories out is the only thing you need to manage to lose weight. Especially when you are consuming as many calories as it takes to gain weight.

[–]Villaintine╰▄︻▄╯1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It must be anything aside from a lack of self-control. And the hamster continues it's journey...

[–]nemma8830/F/UK INFP -t. Engaged0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, in the UK smokers have tobacco heavily taxed. Taxation is at the point it exceeds the estimated cost to our NHS for the treatment of smoking related illnesses.

But when someone suggested a sugar tax, OPPRESSION! NANNYING! etc. But this is probably unique to the UK.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thats a really stupid question.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link

Instead fat women turn off men more than the reverse. A fat man of means (income, status, etc) can pull the attractive women.

Being a fat women is a death-sentence for commitment (to top tier men). There's no excuse for a woman to be fat since it is the very tiny bit that is expected of them.

why are you guys so obsessed with fat people? It's not normal.

Just to give you a heads up, fat women are disliked worldwide. It's actually very normal.

[–]imaterriblelurker1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Fat men are disgusting.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Not so much so if they have wealth and high social status. A fat woman is bottom tier regardless of her wealth.

[–]imaterriblelurker1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Fat men are disgusting. No question about it. Stop trying to justify their fatness.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Women don't seem to think so as much. If a man is spending his days working and providing for his family (which women do far less than men), then being fat is certainly understandable. If a man is paying the majority of the bills (which is the de facto case in most modern marriages/relationships), then he is entitled to be fatter. We're also not mentioning the other numerous traits men are expected to be.

All women are expected to be is not fat. That's it.

[–]imaterriblelurker0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Lol, fat men are disgusting. It does not matter what he does, how personable he is etc. why can you not accept that fat men are disgusting? Are you fat? 🐘

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

No, but I live in an affluent area and see lots of fat men with attractive wives. I'm not disagreeing that fat men are disgusting, but there are more reasons for a man to be a fat and women are more interested in other aspects of a man.

Why can you not accept that men with means attain the hottest/youngest/attractive/best women?

[–]imaterriblelurker0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I live in an affluent area as well. Attractive people hang with, work with and get together with other attractive people. Fat is ugly, fat guys are imho ugly. You're being solipstic in thinking that only men find fat ugly. Ask any of the women that used to be subscribed to FPH and they will tell you the same.

Unhealthy behaviours are ugly, being nice is the bare minimum.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sigh

You are either incompetent, very young or purposefully ignoring my points. I'm going to reiterate my points my last time, if you fail to comprehend them this time I will not explaining them again.

I never said fat men are attractive. Wealth/high social status are attractive to women. Women will forgo fatness in favor of wealth/high social status. FACT.

This is why you see fat millionaires with beautiful skinny, young, tight-bodied women. This is why you see fat rockstars with beautiful skinny, young, tight-bodied women.

Attractive men (and high status men) will not be around fat women. FACT. No amount of female wealth/social status is attractive to men.

[–]BeyondTheLight0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well they are "disgusting". They just have more to offer, than a normal "fatty".

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes and depending on their income levels, they can still attain the hottest girls (probably even hotter than non-fat guys). A fat woman is unattractive regardless of her other contributions.

[–]BeyondTheLight0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty much. You get it. Men on average care more about looks and that isn't going to change any time soon.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Keep telling yourself that buddy. I know plenty of fat women with seriously hot partners. Step outside the red pill think tank for a minute, you might learn a thing.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I know plenty of fat women with seriously hot partners.

Those "hot partners" are most likely unemployed losers that cannot attain the younger/thinner girls that their successful less-hot counterparts can.

Step outside the red pill think tank for a minute, you might learn a thing.

I do. I don't even post on TRP. Fat chicks are always the ones rejected (and rightfully so) by myself and my male friends. Judging from your posts though, it seems you're one of them which isn't surprising.

[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh what a shame to be rejected by you and your bros...

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, me and 'my bros' share a pretty common attraction to the opposite sex with men worldwide. Either way, I hate to sound mean to you since you sound like a great person, but I have to admit the truth.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Pierce Brosnan might disagree with you. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2985901/Pierce-Brosnan-wife-14-years-Keely-look-like-newlyweds-walk-hand-hand-beach.html

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"An exception to the rule, doesn't make the rule untrue" -Tom Leykis

You can find any exception, an anamoly, in ANY data set. Doesn't prove anything.

[–]BeyondTheLight1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Good job you found an exception to the rule. If every TRPer used the same kind of argument, then they could actually solidify their claims.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Hugh Jackman http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2996221/She-likes-bad-boys-Hollywood-hunk-Hugh-Jackman-reveals-s-not-usual-type-wife-Deborra-Lee-Furness-likes.html

[–]BeyondTheLight1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Come on 2 of em? I can give you Hugh Hefner and claim that all the extremely attractive women like a 60+ year old man, who happens to have money. Which is more than 2 examples. I thought I had to clarify. You know just in case.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Google is your friend. Not everyone has a mid life crisis and dumps the poor, faithful wife and sobbing kids to go root the teenage receptionist.

[–]BeyondTheLight1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We were talking about partners, not necessarily wives. I am also sure that most of the people were under the assumption that it was a girlfriend. Also we were talking about "the handsome man being attracted to a fat women, who let her self go", which is just as big of a lie as "the attractive woman being attracted to a wrinkly old man". There are outliers, as in exceptions to the rule, though that doesn't mean that the rule generally doesn't hold. You know as you are making it sound.

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[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I've struggled with anorexia in the past. I am now 40 and about 20 pounds overweight due to some injuries and a seriously screwed up metabolism. I'm 5'8 and wear it well. I focus on health now. I stand up for fatties because I have fat friends. I stand up for anyone who is bullied or made to feel inferior by insignificant, superficial bullies. I don't want children, but if I had a fat daughter, I would love her and teach her to love herself no matter what the bastards say.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Would you teach her to love herself so much, she has the willpower to take initiative, get rid of excess fat, and live a healthier, longer life?

[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would love her and let her decide to lose weight when she is ready. I would set a good example, but I would not push the issue as many kids grow out of a chubby phase on their own.

[–]belletaco-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not everyone is looking for a 'top tier' man.. some women are really happy with someone who is just a good person, makes a decent wage and is great in bed. Not all women are looking for what you think they are looking for.

[–]AryaBarzanProud Fat/Slut Shamer0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What you described sounds like a 'top tier' man. Either way, all men and women look for 'top tier' counterparts (men = attractive/thin/young, women = wealthy/high status) and settle with the best they can get.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

Because it's a giant blight on society. This world would be a much happier place without fat-asses everywhere.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

According to you. I think it's the assholes that are a blight. To each his own.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Calling out obesity is now being an asshole now. You must be a hammy or you have fay friends.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I have fat friends and I will fight to the death for them, or anyone who is being bullied.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

You fight to death. They eat to death. True love.

[–]capt-next-a-hoeCherry Popper Red3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking kek.

Fatties can't fight for long, getting winded quickly and needing a Coke for energy.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You shame them into gaining more weight with your nasty judgement. Do you honestly think you are a good role model and leader, speaking this way about other humans? Do you think that the fatties don't know they are fat? When you see a fat person, can you tell upon sight if they are in the process of losing weight?

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

Do you think I care?

I have been fat myself. Perhaps the greatest kindness any one ever did to me was to mock me for it.

[–]Smilingbluekitties1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think people should mind their own business and not comment on other people's bodies. This is something that children learn in preschool. Fat people know they are fat and it is up to them to decide what and when or if they want to do something about it.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When medical premiums stop going up with obesity rates, tax dollars stop going towards emergency room visits for conditions caused by obesity, and fatties stop inconveniencing people sitting on seats next to them on flights and buses, many will agree with you.

If a society is paying for your excesses, the same society has the right to ask you to clean up your act in any way it sees fit.

Granted that there are some medical conditions and injuries that prevent exercise or weight loss, but that doesn't explain the carb abuse driven obesity epidemic sweeping the world, especially the fast rising nations.

[–]CursedLemonA Bigger, Bluer Dick0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Being concerned about the way other people are living their lives, with absolutely no effect on you except for some very, very far reaching, indirect, chaos-theory-level trickle down medical costs...maybe "asshole" is the wrong term, maybe there's a much better psychological descriptor we can use...

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Nothing far off about that. Medical premiums go up for almost everyone because of fatties.

[–]CursedLemonA Bigger, Bluer Dick1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Same for smokers. Which I'm sure you're very up in arms about.

[–]despisedlove2Reality Pill Tradcon RP1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Smokers are little more than slow murderers, given the effect of second hand smoke.

[–]Villaintine╰▄︻▄╯1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

maybe there's a much better psychological descriptor we can use...

Not psychological, but the rest of your post was a very accurate description of bloopers.

[–]CursedLemonA Bigger, Bluer Dick0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You guys ever get tired of the "actually what you just said supports my position completely" defense mechanism?

[–]Villaintine╰▄︻▄╯0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Do you guys ever get tired of disagreeing verbally and falling right into line with your actions?

[–]CursedLemonA Bigger, Bluer Dick0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't even know what this sentence means.

[–]Villaintine╰▄︻▄╯0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It means you say a lot of shit that your reported actions do not mesh with. But we expect that, AWALT.

[–]BeyondTheLight3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The people who are in shape will be more sought after as they will be more "rare". For the other people, well. "Fatties" will date other "fatties", as beggars can't be choosers. That would it pretty much. A 5 will stay a 5 even if he/she is fat. A 5 that is thin will be a 6 or perhaps even a 7 so to speak.

[–]BorMatoRed Pill Man3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It gives the non fattys much more power in the SMP

[–]rulenumber3031 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is just like any other time when there is any sort of significant reproductive pressure on people. Those who cope and find ways will reproduce Maybe we end up as a species who carries an extra 50 pounds of adipose and 10 pounds of muscle (necessary to carry the adipose round if you're going to be active) compared to what we did before. Maybe we end up as a species that feels more driven to exercise recreationally. Maybe some from column A and some from column B.

Simple as that. These are the current resource conditions, we are relatively rich in shelf stable carbs and fats and by comparison poor in protein and by comparison poor in perishable unprocessed goods. We are rich in profitable, useful and tempting activites that can be done sitting down and by comparison poorer than we've ever been in being able to get financial benefit from moving our bodies. We are rich in wages but poor in time to exercise. Those who can find a way (be it by working at being slim or by saying fuckit and working out how much fat is OK by them) will do so. Those who can't, their line ends.

Individuals need to work out exactly what they are willing to do to continue their line.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Wow, there is fuck all understanding of the relationships between poverty and obesity, or the relationships between mental health and obesity on this thread. For a mob who Stoke themselves over their reals before feels; you're pretty uninformed and willfully ignorant.

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[–]Smilingbluekitties2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

It keeps the red Pillers away!

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[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm fucking huge! I weigh 700 pounds and I need at least four of my beta orbiters to hold up my fupa. Then my alpha captain makes sweet love to my sweaty cottage cheese thighs as my orbiters feed me Chicken McNuggets. It's awesome.

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[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hell, no! People are delicious, especially the salty, cocky ones.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Neither does being bald. Should we encourage baldy shaming in order make then head to Hair Yeah Yeah? Purely to avoid the tax dollars being spent on treating the skin cancer on their chrome domes, of course...

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[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Shaming people about their physical shortcomings is counter productive. Any dickhead with some knowledge of exercise science knows that.

[–]BeyondTheLight0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Silly example. You can't naturally grow some hair, but you can naturally lose weight. It is silly to shame someone for something they can't do about like being short or "ugly".

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You can regrow hair. Rogaine.

[–]BeyondTheLight0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Naturally. Keyword. Anyway it is a temporary solution to a what is a seemingly permanent problem at the moment. It is just a bandage for a wound that never will really heal, whereas losing weight can be permanent if you change your behaviors. You are comparing "cutting yourself" with having a naturally "weak Constitution".

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

99% of dieters will regain most if not all of the weight they lose. Weight loss surgery or never gaining weight in the first place seem to be the only solutions.

[–]BeyondTheLight0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Keyword "can". You keep moving beside the point, but I will bit anyway. Weight loss surgery like liposuction doesn't really work either as the person in question doesn't change their eating patterns and will regain the weight anyway and at different places as well. The real solution is to break their habits. Slowly but surely. Just like with drug addicted (though they have more of an excuse as hard drugs are generally more mentally damaging and addictive, than food).

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

I laugh fat pigs off. Think of Poker except that the Ace and 1 are seperate values instead of interchangeable. Low value cards pair with other low value cards.

Fatties are just another low value card, but the thing is, they shouldn't complain, because they can raise their value in a simple and well-understood way: eat less processed garbage and exercise more. Just because they don't have the will power isn't on me.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

If you work really hard, maybe you can become a nicer person.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then all those kittens I drown daily will have died in vain.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If you work really hard, maybe you can become a more accountable person.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Nice try. You know absolutely nothing about me.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I know as much about you being accountable as you do about the other poster being nice.

[–]Smilingbluekitties0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Nice people don't bully others.

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I dont want to be known as nice. Its not one of my personality goals. I want to be known as tough but fair.

[–]Smilingbluekitties-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh, right. Because you're a part of the "asshole pride" movement? You think being an asshole will get you laid, and that is all that matters? You know what I think is pathetic? Being a human being that actively avoids behaving in an ethical fashion

[–]Nazrath2112Blood Splatter Red0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ethics and morals are subjective. I am sure that a chaotic good person is going to have different ethics and morals then a Lawful Evil person.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Uh oh, a female blaming men for her problems.

[–]belletaco-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, TRP never blames females for their problems or anything.. nope.

[–]IramadanceRed Pill Man2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Nope. One of the core tenets of TRP is accepting your current situation is entirely of your own doing. Once you understand that you realize that to change your life YOU need to take control of it.

[–]wombatinaburrowfeminist marsupial0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kek

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fat women will keep pushing to redefine the threshold of attraction. When in reality, the bell curve will keep pushing to the left. The 7~10 women will be incredibly slutty and be loaded with STD's with the endless supply of men that they'll get. Any guy below an 8~8.5 will lose out and the population will tank just like Japan.

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