TRP says women are disloyal by nature and incapable of love .They use evo psych to explain it. I personally have a different theory.

I think that humans , regardless of gender , mostly have a selfish nature. We always try to choose what's best for us and there's nothing inherently wrong with it.

TRPillers have made the observation that a lot of women would abandon their partner if they thought they could do better than that . What they don't take into consideration is that the average women has it easier than the average man when it comes to dating.

Think about it. From a very young age, good looking women get approached by quite a few men. When you enter OkCupid as a woman you'll probably get hundreds of messages . When you walk down the streets you'll have people cat-call you and notice you.

This causes some young women to think too highly of themselves and be too picky . When you feel that you have a lot of options you're likely to start having high expectations too.

Now lets imagine a man growing up like this, being hit on by lots of girls . Isn't this man likely to develop a "player" mentality and have high standards about which woman he'll decide to commit too ? I don't know about you but most really high SMV men I know would never settle down with something less than a perfect 10.

You say that women are disloyal but I think it would be interesting if we could have some men in serious relationships get hit on by really attractive women . How many men would stay faithful if they had the option to sleep with other attractive ladies ? Highly attractive men (or alpha males or whatever you call them ) have the reputation of being "douchebags" (isn't that how a lot of nice guys call high SMV men ?) and most people expect really attractive women to be narcissistic and bitchy. Maybe having lots of people pursuing you indeed feeds your ego and can make you narcissistic , but is it really a gender issue ?

I personally think that if we reversed the situation and the men had it way easier than women when it comes to dating and sex , a lot of men would start behaving like women today do. They would be disloyal and have really high standards when it comes to choosing the kind of women they'd commit to.

I think that there are indeed some differences between the genders but that we're more similar than TRP wants you to believe. I think that our personal experiences and the way we were raised plays a very important role in the development of our character.