Who is the craziest person you have ever met (in the dating world) and how did you handle it?

am_thro_way · 2014-09-22T00:54:14+00:00

I'm probably the craziest person I've ever met. I handle it by pretending to be sane.

Bakerofpie · 2014-09-22T06:46:29+00:00

One dude wept when I requested no ranch dressing on this burrito he was making me. Like, SOBBED. I handled it by not breaking up with him for another three months. Sigh.

Reginleifer · 2014-09-21T19:08:37+00:00

Honestly don't think I have a clear winner, some cuntbag whose depressing letters got me ridiculed in front of my entire classroom as I was forced to read it aloud, and then forced to visit a psychologist because I wouldn't rat her out.

The cuntbag who decided to move in with me 2 weeks after we started dating, stayed for over a year. Had complete breakdowns I could time like clockwork.

And of course the massive cuntbag who after we broke up, abused her friend because we still talked to each other. You guys think dread game is torture, this poor girl got fucked up in the head, left with no friends......funny thing was it didn't even seem she wanted me back given her attitude towards me, so why take it out on your best friend?

Those are just the worst ones. I've looked for the fish in the proverbial sea...... I just think that there's way too much jellyfish.

[deleted] · 2014-09-21T21:24:17+00:00

4 months in was our first Valentine's day. I worked nights and was bathing after work. She came over and walked straight past the bathroom with a steak knife while sobbing. She locked the door and started cutting. I kicked open the door, took the knife and let her know never again. She hasn't cut herself since. She did go to the bedroom after we got married and went looking for the pistol during an argument. Probably to commit suicide. Luckily I had moved it.

niczar · 2014-09-21T22:24:52+00:00

Cluster B personality disorder.

Toxic shit.

cxj · 2014-09-22T05:00:57+00:00

Craziest person I dealt with I have already spammed this forum with too many times. TLDR she wouldn't stop attacking me and trashing my house over a text message she found from another girl in my phone so I called the cops and they arrested me because she lied and said I was hitting her.

Brocccooli · 2014-09-23T16:39:17+00:00

Dating a sociopath is probably at the top of my list.

I'm better for it though. I'd thank her every day if I could.

stickfiguresk · 2014-09-22T06:08:05+00:00

I've been on about 50 first dates. The most amusing ones were with the women that'd get horribly insecure with the waitress and really be mean as shit with them. But a different one really stands out: I went on a date with a woman that I wasnt sure was attractive or not. It's like she was standing sternly on 5/10 and absolutely refused to budge in either direction.

I was utterly torn, but asked her out anyway because we had a lot in common and she had neat hobbies. The needle swayed in the downward direction here:

Everything was going well and I was still waiting for something to tell me if she was attractive or not. I was a gentleman and told her a couple of my best stories and got her really laughing and smiling and relaxing. She got caught up in it and told me this little gem:

"One time, I really wanted to go to Red Lobster, but my husband wouldn't take me, so I refused to eat for a month! I didnt eat a single thing for a MONTH, haha! I drank nothing but warm Sun Drop and milk!"

"Uh Hah... Er... that's uh... that's not good."

She went on to explain that she didn't mean she'd occasionally drink Sun Drop and occasionally drink milk; nope, she mixed them together.

I rode out the rest of the date, she pulled a ninja move and surprised me with a kiss on the mouth, and stocked me at the gym I said I went to. The dude she eventually started bringing to this gym with her would glare at me the entire time they were there. She was a hot mess.

Villaintine · 2014-09-21T22:21:44+00:00

Craziest was definitely my first LTR following my divorce. Single mom, recent divorce w/ two young sons. She described me/time with me as a vacation from the rest of her life. She was very bipolar. Really fun when manic, really scary when depressed. She ended up being psych hospitalized (children sent w/ dad) and her mother and I (we'd already broke up for several months) were the only ones that visited her.

OfSpock · 2014-09-21T22:47:51+00:00

Getting engaged really brought out the crazies. It deters the normal guys and the weirdos just see a woman sitting at the bar by herself. By which I mean, I was trying to save a seat while my fiance bought the drinks. They would buy me drinks even after I declined them. My (now) husband would drink them and say thank you. They would get annoyed but mostly take the hint. Usually they'd leave at that point but some of them would continue to try and hit on me with him standing right there.

On guy I worked with but had never seen out socially before spent half an hour trying to convince me to go on an overseas holiday with him instead of on my honeymoon. He was persistent to the point where my finace actually asked him to go outside with him. He wouldn't but was evicted by the bouncers.

We went to a nightclub with my cousin and his wife. Some guy was waiting outside the bathroom when I came out, wasted at maybe 9pm and followed me around all night. My husband attracted a similar admirer who went as far as walking up to him on the dance floor and pushing me out of the way before flinging her arms around his neck and trying to kiss him. We ended up trying to hook the two of them up, by which I mean next time she flung herself at him, dh steered her into my admirers arms and we bolted.

babyguineapig · 2014-09-22T04:44:11+00:00

The man who tried to convince me to try cropophellia was my strangest encounter. I pretended I had to have a pee, paid the tab and left. He tried to call me again but I didn't answer.

[deleted] · 2014-09-22T06:22:07+00:00

Well, I kind of think a lot of women are crazy and it seems like I attract crazy-ish types of women. Dramatic and melodramatic types, y'know?

By contrast, I'm kind of a dry guy. Cutting loose just isn't just something I do every 5 minutes. I'm a really controlled individual. So sometimes I wonder if they see me and think, "Ooooh he's all stable looking"?

I handle it by being attracted to these women, not understanding them very well, not communicating with them very well, and I watch them jump ship and date some hipster asshole who goes balls out trying to cope with her crazy-ass girly shit.

There's a crazy girl right now who's so ready to hypergamically serial-monogamist her way into my life. She's living with a dude she's clearly meh about. He's a bit insecure and hovers over her all the damn time. When I see her at a nightclub she loses her shit around me, pawing and purring and grabbing and what-have-you. It's like ok, ok I get it. It's fucking obvious she likes the hell out of me. With this one I decided I'm not going to friendzone her. I'm going flirtzone and possibly affairzone her. I might be able to use her to draw other chicks my way. I am not interested in stealing her from the other guy and starting some kind of serious relationship with her. Fuck that noise.

So maybe how I handle crazy chicks is evolving.

Cactuar_Tamer · 2014-09-22T07:42:44+00:00

I've fortunately only come into contact with very mild crazy.

He wasn't for the most part hostile, except towards the very end, but there were some things that were just ...weird.

Like, we were leaving a conference for work together, and we caught a taxi to the station. He got in at the curb and I waited for him to scoot over so I could get in, too, as one does. but he just sat there for a while and then did this whole exasperated sigh, got out of the taxi, pushed past me, walked all the way around the back of the taxi to the street side, got in the other door and sat down on the other side of the back seat. All instead of just scooting over. It was very wtf, and there were other similarly weird things.

I actually think he might have been trying to get me to break up with him instead of the other way around. I remember he did the whole "we need to talk" thing and then we went out to a cafe and he told me that he didn't love me. Now I'd been worried about this, so naturally I was completely relieved. I said that that was great, I didn't love him either, but I liked him and he was really attractive.

I left the cafe thinking it was great that we were on the same page, but in retrospect considering the way the breakup actually went down (I practically had to drag it out of him) I think he might have thought I'd have a a different reaction.

[deleted] · 2014-09-22T14:49:26+00:00

My wife. I married her.

I guess that makes me pretty crazy too, huh?

RedPill4LYF · 2014-09-22T15:32:20+00:00

Met a girl with crazy fucked up sexual fetishes and kinks. She pretended to be perfect for me at first, but she was one of those girls who can only keep up an act for so long before the other aspects of her life start creeping into reality, contradicting the narrative she has weaved, and by then you see that she's completely full of shit about her intentions.

She was totally nuts. I went from thinking she was the unicorn I'd been looking for to realizing she was actually a witch who thought she could keep me under her spell. I didn't even find out her real name until a year after I dumped her.

[deleted] · 2014-09-22T23:06:09+00:00

I dated an autistic woman with borderline personality disorder (she cops to the diagnosis). Lots of highs, lows and miscommunication.

Part of the craziness came from me, though. I was just coming off a divorce and put her on a pedestal (in between times I wasn't yelling at her).

We_Are_Legion · 2014-09-21T20:11:57+00:00

I think I am usually the "crazy guy" chicks humble-brag about. In a good way though I'm sure.

But craziest would have to be a catholic girl who I did anal and oral with because she wanted to remain a virgin.

I... did not question it. We broke off contact pretty soon too. Thinking about it, I really wonder what happened to her. And if she made it till marriage. She seemed guilty.

2nd craziest would be a girl who really got off on teasing me. Sometimes emotionally, but usually sexually. i.e. she really did not care about consent. And while I usually do set boundaries, she liked to push them when I could not. I've mentioned before on PPD that my family is very traditional. They do not know about my life besides my profession and I like to keep it that way. But they have always wanted me to get married. So often enough, I would date a girl long term, and bring her home to meet them. I did not want them to think of me as morally corrupt or whatever. This girl was one of them. I'd dated her for a month when I started getting flak for not being serious about starting a family, so I promised I'd bring my girlfriend over to meet them. I stretched how long we'd been together by about 4x. In a way I should have predicted, she uses this opportunity to torture me for every second we're there.

My parents want to get chummy, aaaaand does she let them. So everytime my parents push for something like marriage or a family, she totally goes along and tells them its a great idea! It goes beyond seeing old pictures(though we touch that cliché too. At her behest)... she tells them we're thinking about getting pregnant(da fuck). She tells them we had a scare and I was all for it. She tells them we're talking about long-term. At some point, I break frame and clarify sternly we did not, and she's like "ah, haha" like its nothing. Bitch I will kill you. My mom laughs with her. More than that, she strokes me under tables. She pushes me onto my parents bed while they're home. She kisses me in a manner where they wouldn't see but. they. know(PDA is unacceptably rude here).

I have never felt so out of control in my life. It lasted 3 days. Her object was to break my frame. And she succeeded. She made her alpha go beta and she loved it. Strangely enough, I did not break up. Most of the incidents sound bad, and... well, yeah, they were bad(dont do it, girls) but in hindsight I could laugh about them. Ironically, we did date for 4 months before we broke up.

I'm still friends with her... and she is still kooky.

tl;dr Get over yellow-fever gents. Asian chicks are weird.

EDIT: *she was joking about baby pictures in an intentional attempt to make it awkward, but my mom actually bought into it. In hindsight, my parents weren't mad.

Title	Who is the craziest person you have ever met (in the dating world) and how did you handle it?
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Date	September 21, 2014 6:17 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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