"Be upfront with women about your intentions" is the dumbest dating advice out there

Orange_Paisley · 2019-10-18T22:16:29+00:00

You don’t say “I just want sex.” You say “I’m not looking for anything serious” or “I’m not into labels” or some shit. The niceties must be observed.

FatmanSlim93 · 2019-10-18T21:30:16+00:00

That’s the only way to weed out women that are not compatible with me. Why the fuck would I not be up front? I don’t wanna date a woman who sleeps around, and she should be up front with if that’s ok or not. Being upfront is the greatest thing that’s come of the changes to dating.

wtffellification · 2019-10-19T07:47:49+00:00

every female dating advice should be followed by "...when you're attractive"

"Be upfront, just be yourself... when you're attractive already" see? makes total sense

dirty_nail · 2019-10-18T21:53:23+00:00

That guy is dumb because he doesn't know the difference between saying "Hey, I just want sex." and not saying shit but communicating it.

This is remedial level, you guys.

cloudnymphe · 2019-10-20T00:44:39+00:00

Y’know you can avoid saying “hey wanna fuck” the moment you meet someone, and also be upfront with them about your intentions.

You can have good communication with someone and tell them at some point that you aren’t interested in dating. Yes, this may lower the amount of people who will sleep or continue sleeping with you if they want a monogamous relationship. But it’s better than being a dick and manipulating or lying to them.

Wallstreet3 · 2019-10-18T21:26:21+00:00

Advice no woman follows.

Aaren_Augustine · 2019-10-18T21:27:22+00:00

So let me get this straight. You give up an opportunity to show that you can be assertive, that you know what you want, can be fucking honest for a change and that if it comes to rejection, you get practice in removing the sting.

You step away from being a beta orbiter, because honesty and assertiveness are not your friends, if you've had a past problem with this. You don't waste your time with a chick that was never going to give it up in the first place. If she doesn't reject you...well you know where that leads.

Maybe you want to try and be influential with women, rather than notorious. Or maybe you're just too weak and have to trick a bitch.

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ifelsedowhile · 2019-10-19T11:45:22+00:00

Hey, can I insert my erected penis in your vagina? wonder if it works.

justblowinoffsteamok · 2019-10-18T21:38:55+00:00

TBF: simply stating "I am feeling really attracted to you" while on a date at the right moment has been a good approach for me multiple times. But I guess that's not the same as stating your "intentions," still leaves it ambiguous.

justblowinoffsteamok · 2019-10-18T21:37:02+00:00

There's a famous scene in the movie "Tootsie" about exactly this.

Title	"Be upfront with women about your intentions" is the dumbest dating advice out there
Author	BRAHzilianSigma
Upvotes	26
Comments	65
Date	October 18, 2019 9:19 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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